Hubby just joined the army!!!!
So his ship out date to training camp is may 15 and honestly im just sad. I didnt want to have to move away from my family to a different state & I dont want Nyla growing up without her grandparents, aunties, uncle & cousins
any words or advice from any military mommies. How was ur experience like or hows life being a military wife???
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@juliansmommy I guess it will b okay after I get settled in but right now the thought of moving away scares the shyt out of me lol. Ur right, she will still have mommie & daddy but I kno it will b harder when my husband leaves for months at a time n it will only b me n nyla in a new state
Btw I can't drive either (kinda have a phobia) lol ur not alone
Just stay busy. If you dont agree with something another military wife does or doesnt do. Bite your tounge(sp). And dont forget hes working very hard to provide for you and your baby. Its not easy but its something you will get used to and maybe learn to like or love. And if he deploys you can always go home for a month or two!
@myheartzx3 now ima look foward to holidays lol air guard, what do they do? Lol im scared to drive. Im gona try and learn how to just bc I have a baby now & hubby wont b around
@misskristin ill try and go in with a good positive attitude but this is a big change me but thank u
Two things to get you through anything with the military...
1. NO NEWS IS GOOD NEWS!!!!
2. HURRY UP AND WAIT!
idk air national guard?...i guess its like reserves? he has a job here on one of the bases and he leaves maybe once a couple years if he volunteers for like 2 weeks at the most. their so lucky the get all the benefits and he gets to stay here. she brings me shopping on base lol
life will be better for u and the fam in the long run
@myheartzx3 girl everyone is tired of me askin for rides lol I got my permitt like 4 times. Mines just recently expired again.
@navybabyonway is completely correct about the hurry up and wait! Haha, but I was a military brat so I wasn't surprised or irritated by it. Of course my husband says I'm one of those annoyingly patient people :P
@navybabyonway thank u so much, ive been very helpful
@out_sphinx @navybabyonway wat does hurry up & wait means lol ? @out_sphinx I wouldnt mind being alone without hubby if I were to b closer to family especially with a newborn & im sad that when she turns one I wouldnt b able to celebrate with family n friends
@navybabyonway I get it & it is so true lol ughhh