NPR ... How would you feel...

tinka1326

You looked on your partners Internet history on their phone and they had been watching hardcore porn daily? I don't normally snoop but my phone was flat and I wanted to borrow his phone so I could come on here... First thing that pops up is what he last viewed only yesterday and it was filthy. We have sex, but he seems more interested in getting blowjobs (tmi) and he doesn't seem interested in me the same way. I put it down to having 4 kids under 5 combined and our daughter being 10 weeks old and the stress of all this... But now I don't know what to think. I don't care if he watches porn etc it's normal but this just seems excessive... Your input is welcome guys

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Mimii36

I agree 100% with @ashleyfew. My partner watches porn OFTEN! I don't mind at all. I think porn has taught him a few tricks. Lol. He is crazy about blowjobs too but its probably because he doesn't get them often at all.

tinka1326

Well we have only been together a little over a year, I got pregnant 3 months into things, so naturally things slowed from 2-3 times a day to every other day because I was so sick. Towards the end of pregnancy it slowed to 1-2 times a week by his choice and I understood. I had an easy delivery and was back into things within only 2 weeks and back to my old self in 4... But he rarely initiates sex maybe once every 2 weeks any other time its me and tge only other thing he wants is almost daily blow jobs. He has always watched porn and I never really cared till now, it feels like he would prefer to go solo rather than do things with me... I dont know maybe im just being a drama queen but I just feel shattered that our sex life has dwindled to quickies... @ashleyfew @mimii36

LeviLuv8

I wouldn't mind it. I don't do blow jobs often do my hubby doesn't expect them.... Every! Especially since I'm pregnant & gag easily lol. We've only had sex 2 times since I became pregnant. I feel bad but I'm never feeling it....

As for the bj thing I was talking with a friend and he told me he prefers bjs over sex!

kayleigh27

I personally dont mind. i would rather him watch porn than sleep with other women. i know he has his fantasies (i.e: blow jobs, threesomes) and i have mine so i dont care if he gets himself off with videos/pictures of women hes never gonna meet. we have a healthy sex life and always have been honest with each other. we've even watched porn together. hell i have vibrators and he doesnt care

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Chels

I hate when he watches porn it pisses me off! We have sex like 2 or 3 times before I go to work EVERYDAY and then I come home and find porn on my laptop and his pocket pussy out! It's like didn't you get it enough before I left?! Then he gets it a couple times when i get home! I just don't understand!!!!

Chels

And he has sextube on his phone its like he is addicted to it!

Junebuggbabie85

It used to not bother me but now it does it's like he would rather watch porn than even touch me.

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