Oh my gosh what is his problem now his mad at u for looking say his phone well maybe he shouldn't give u a reason to look and grow up and be responsible for what his actions are rather then blaming it on u this is exactly what my bf used to do when we went through this so I told him ill stop looking if he stops doing all those things... Well I stopped but not right away bc I at the time couldn't trust that he would ya know... But I think looking back on it he realizes how stupid it was bc our relationship without that fight everyday is much better. Tell him that maybe if you at least knew his work schedule u wouldnt look through his stuff bc he obviously doesn't want to tell u anything.
@kimberly4411 no the dumb a$$ dr just said well feed him as much as he wants to keep him calm... I had asked about rice cereal and he said no because it causes obesity...um hello so does feeding him when he's hurting and not really hungry...ugh.. @jules I've tried telling him that he just said no you better stop or we are going to have problems....i was like wtf are you serious?!?! @armahnismommy I have changed I've become angry and resentful towards him because I feel like a doormat and a maid and feel no affection for him. I've written him a letter (5 pages) telling him exactly how Ifeel and I'm going to give it to him and then spend a couple days at my moms.
It all sounds very fishy to me, and the more you tolerate it, the more he's gonna think he can walk all over you and get away with it. I think leaving for a few days is a good idea. If I was you I'd contact the other woman. In my experience if they're really that skanky they're more than happy to tell you what's going on just to make you jealous or rub it in your face. It's a shitty way to get answers but if your man is a coward it might be the only way.
What kind of bottles are you using? Sorry, i can't remember anything these days. I'm glad you're going to your moms, she'll be able to help you with liam and you can talk to her, decide on the number of days and don't go back early, hopefully he'll be begging and pleading for you to come back
@rileyandme lmbo!! I call my little man chunky butt. He's up to almost nine pounds and he's only six weeks and he weighed 6.14 when he was born. @starxoxo9 I'm going to see what he says about the letter first
@kimberly4411 I breast feed at home but when he is with my mom we use playtex ventaire . I'm only staying tuesday night and wednesday night while my dad is out of town. And knowing him he wouldn't beg me back. He doesn't think like that. @rileyandme he doesn't ever watch the baby but for like ten minutes when I take a shower. He doesn't even know how to changea diaper........as I was typing this he sent me a text rose
I'm sorry but your thing nothing wrong I would be like no if u don't get your shit together your going to have a problem because no one deserves to be talked to like that when they arent doing anything wrong bc as far as I see it u just care about the guy and your guys relationship that u don't want him doing anything behind your back your just showing that you care because you wanna figure out what can be fixed bc there is obviously a problem.
I won't let him change diapers I tried to teach him but he has no patience and doesn't know his own strength and grabbed liams legs too hard because he was fussing so now I won't let him do it.i don't need him hurting the baby because he gets frustrated. @rileyandme
So I wrote him that letter and he got really quiet and stopped talking to me but he was more cuddly at night and did clean up after himself a little so I'm not sure what's going
I use to hate the xbox but now my hubby doesnt play very often, now it's his phone or tablet i hate. I think they'll always find some way to tune us out. Lol
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So I wrote him that letter and he got really quiet and stopped talking to me but he was more cuddly at night and did clean up after himself a little so I'm not sure what's going