Should I even bother?

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  • I will share my mommy with yall. She is the best. I get I love u everytime I talk to her and a goodnight message every night. She would love to have all of u as daughters. :)
  • edited February 2011
    @Mommy_2_B Not even sure, I've been giving it some thought and maybe I won't even stress them at all. Let them see me with a big belly all of a sudden and freak out lol oh well right? @intri wow you are kinda stuck in a sticky situation. Good thing we can handle a lot more than guys and were the ones that carry the baby. If he says anything negative after you tell him you shouldn't even take it to heart because no good bf ignores his gf out of nowhere... not even an "lDR". Good thing your confident enough to know you can make it without a guy : ) Just keep in mind some guys still freak out at first then come back around later even actual fathers of the baby. But who does this MU guy think he is? I don't get why some guys waste our time, I mean if some want a one night stand why can't they be "man" enough to tell us. We like to know what we are getting ourselfs into and no one likes their time wasted. He needs a reality check, apparently he didn't know what can happen when you have sex. Deff child support...ugh guys like that get me enraged. This will be one emotional ride but the result should be well worth it. If it doesn't work out with LDR maybe it was just not meant to be. Yeah it sounds corny bt its true for example when we have broken things off with our ex's we still have somewhat feelings for them and we sometimes think that we can't do better and we will never find someone like that again but yet most of the time we do and we find someone that's better. What I am trying to say is maybe this is for you to just find someone better. Like a wake up call? Know what your worth because I am sure you are worth so much more : ) I wish you the best of luck when you tell your LDR and keep me updated, I hope everything works out in ur favor.
  • Ugh, can I please join the Horrible Mothers' Club? I grew up with a mom who constantly told me she never wanted kids (well you'd think she'd learn about birth control before she got to 5!) & that I was "more trouble than I was worth"... um, yeah- I was pretty much every parents dream kid- just wanted to go to school (but was forced to be homeschooled), never drank, smoked or did drugs, etc... she never knew what she had, only saw the 'bad' things I did. Well on top of all that, she started losing it mentally & moved us out into the middle of nowhere to a piece of bare land w/ no house, no power & no running water & that's where I lived for 4 freakin' years... age 13 to 17, as if being a teenager isn't hard enough! We lived in a 1 room cabin that my brother & I built in a weekend. I was the youngest of the 5, so they all eventually came of age & left, and my mom decided to live with one of my sisters in town (against her will) and left me out there by myself at 15 years old, for days or weeks at a time. Well, long story short, I stupidly tried for years to make her proud & make her 'want' me, and things only got worse. I am 27 now & preggers with my 2nd baby & haven't spoken to her in months. I'm over it. I'm just sad that she needs mental help & won't get it b/c she thinks she's done nothing wrong. I never even told her I was pregnant. I let her find out from one of my sisters... I'm just glad I can give my kids the kind of life I never had...
  • @elle_baby I agree with u 100% we can only be better than they treated us idk if I'm goin to tell them
    Thanks n congrats
    @twin_angels yea it feels like I'm nothing to them thanks
  • Twin_angels extacly my kids would have all the love in the world n they would be treated equal
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