What is wrong with me? Tmi
Im so upset. Okay, back story.. My husband used to have problems with not being able to last very long in bed. It became a big issue for us. Well now, the sex is great. The problem is, I cant seem to get him off anymore (tmi). No matter what I do, he lasts forever and ive already "got mine" 2 or 3 times and I have to stop. I cried last night because after having my baby, I feel unattractive anyway so now its upsetting & I feel like it has something to do with me. He swears it doesnt though. I dont want to make a big deal about it & let him know im upset because years ago the problem was that he DIDNT last long. I just dont understand what has changed & why he cant. Even oral, which was always a sure bet lol. What do you girls think?
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Man that is weird. Your right, oral usually does the trick lol. Does he seem bothered that he can't? Does he get himself off?
@janet_2011 he definitely isnt using anything like that. Last night I woke him up out of a dead sleep & initiated it so he couldnt have done anything like that. And yeah, I was getting super sensitive, thats why I had to stop. But yes, its definitely weird for him not to cum. Its like hes so worried about going back into old habits (getting off in 8 seconds) that he doesnt allow himself to do it at all
@noahsmommy its really odd. Usually oral was the sure bet. Ive never had any problems "getting it done" quickly that way, but now its not at all. He doesnt seem bothered. He tells me hes just happy that I got mine. I asked him if it hurt when he didnt (a.k.a. Blue balls lol) and he says it doesnt. And as far as I know, he doesnt finish himself. I guedd I would probably know if he did lol