so...why are you surprised?

dra765

I don't mean to sound like a bitch..so if it comes off like that, its the internet lol but for all u newley pregnant chicks: why are you surprised ur pregnant again? In order for it to happen you have to have unprotected sex which u obviously did. I know none of us regret our babies but don't be all shocked when ur prego again if you know what you did sneaky lol

victoriarenee

Lol I was thinking the same thing

Mimii36

I had been having unprotected sex with my hubby for 2 years & didnt get preggo. So when I did..i was suprised! Just because you know something COULD be an outcome of something you do doesnt necessarily mean it WILL be an outcome. So I think its natural to be suprised. I mean even ppl who PLAN to get pregnant are still suprised to get that bfp.

dra765

N the pull out method is not a birth control

dra765

Still @Mimii36 you know its a possible outcome n some women r just baffled when it happens

Mimii36

I was baffled when I got my bfp. We know ppl come in this world to die but we are still sometimes suprised when it happens. I totally understand the element of being suprised about being pregnant. I agree with @mommy2ari
Just my opinion tho.

mommyof3girls

I dont think she posted this to cause drama. I was thinking the same thing. Of course its normal to be suprised even if u were planning the baby. Its a normal response to the news. I think its just more of the people that dont want another one or dont want another one so soon who act totally shocked when they clearly know that sex can lead to a baby.

dra765

Oh calm down @mommy2Ari I didn't mean it start drama so don't comment if that's all its going to do for u. Thanks for your opinion @Mimii36 I understand that a lil better now

dra765

@mommyof3girls thank you! That's exactly who I was talking about. Those ladies

RedShadoe0

Hahaha, well my dad was always "surprised"... He used to joke that the doctors kept getting my mom preggo, not him... He said every time she went to the Dr, she came home with that BFP!! Said he quit letting her go to the Dr for a while

dra765

@RedShadoe0 haha sounds like a man always blaming everything but his wee wee

starrxoxo9

I understand being surprised, but I hate when people act ignorant about it like, Omg how did this happen???? Lol

Janet_2011

Well some of this girls were on protection when they got pregnant, condoms break and pills fail. Is a part of life.

dra765

I know right. I was surprised but not really bc I was having unprotected sex n we wanted our baby.

Máthair

Wait a minute, are you trying to tell me babies come from sex?!

I thought they came from the stork!! Damn it, my mom lied to me!

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dra765

@Janet_2011 this is true I remember ashley got pregnant still... That was crazy

BigBelly

The ones that get me are always.like "I had sex last night with no protection. Is there a chance I could get pregnant?" It's like are you really asking that question?!?!
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megaroo

Out off all 8 of ny pregnancys only two were unprotected the other 6 were on some type of protection. So those 6 BEF i got i was extremly surprised!!!

dra765

LOLS @conreeaght and @BigBelly riiight its annoying sometimes

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allie8955

I completely understand what ur saying! If a person is not ready for a baby or just had one and can't have one just now....use protection!! Unprotected sex can lead to being pregnant and that is a fact! I recently was worried I was ganna b pregnant cuz I just had my second one 6mon ago...and we used protection. But my period came late cuz I started to workout. Yea I'd b surprised if I got pregnant...not too much if I didn't use protection. Ppl need to get serious...kids are not something u can put on hold or go take a break from...once ur pregnant things change and ur in full responsibility. Great luck to all the mommas out there!

dra765

@RileyAndMe I had this girls cousins family say she got pregnant bc an angel came in.her room n kissed her lmao omg ppl these days. They are a very Christian family n r prolly in denial

BigBelly

Didn't someone on here ask if she could get pregnant from anal? Lol

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BigBelly

Bahahahaha that's great! @rileyandme
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RedShadoe0

Lmao @rileyandme yeah I knew one of those girls too... She was 'saving herself'...

RedShadoe0

Like really... Honestly if i had to chose bw anal and no sex.... No sex wins. I just can't do anal Lmao.

dra765

So glad this turned in to an anal discussion lol anal hurts just have sex geez

RedShadoe0

Sorry, back to the topic.... For someone that has had a hard time getting preggo, much less keeping it, I find it hard to be surprised too. I also find it annoying sometimes but purely for selfish reasons prolly