So mad! ... again!!! *update
We habe been together 2 years in may. Malia is almost 6 months.
He cheated on me AGAIN! The first time was before I was pregnant. Now again 2 weeks ago.. the first time I found out, I told him I would leave him if it happened again.. but I just cant do it.. idk why I still even like him, let alone love him.. I found out tonight. We went to the movies for the first time in over a year, I was using his phone for light so I could pump. Bam, a text.. "Baby, I want to rock your world and make you love me" ... "Again". So I responded with "when?" . She repied something like whenever he could, but I dont remember... I finished pumping, heart rate up, shaking, pissed. I got my stuff together & took a cab bback to his moms. He STAYED there! Then when I knew it was over, told him to get a cab...no, he wanted to take the bus, fine.. 30 minutes later.. I'm like where are yoou? He walked, to avoid this confrontation! We got the bbaby, walked home. He kept denying any cheating part.. but I know when things dont add up.. eventually he said fine. I saiid, well, what happened (him) we had sex once. UGH! ii dont even know what to do! I still have trust issues from the first time! And i go in a couple of weeks to visit my home famiily in texas. Im just lost.
He cheated on me AGAIN! The first time was before I was pregnant. Now again 2 weeks ago.. the first time I found out, I told him I would leave him if it happened again.. but I just cant do it.. idk why I still even like him, let alone love him.. I found out tonight. We went to the movies for the first time in over a year, I was using his phone for light so I could pump. Bam, a text.. "Baby, I want to rock your world and make you love me" ... "Again". So I responded with "when?" . She repied something like whenever he could, but I dont remember... I finished pumping, heart rate up, shaking, pissed. I got my stuff together & took a cab bback to his moms. He STAYED there! Then when I knew it was over, told him to get a cab...no, he wanted to take the bus, fine.. 30 minutes later.. I'm like where are yoou? He walked, to avoid this confrontation! We got the bbaby, walked home. He kept denying any cheating part.. but I know when things dont add up.. eventually he said fine. I saiid, well, what happened (him) we had sex once. UGH! ii dont even know what to do! I still have trust issues from the first time! And i go in a couple of weeks to visit my home famiily in texas. Im just lost.
Comments
I was woken up early, so I tookk iit upon myself to get his phone, get on fb, delete and block her after reading her stupid statuses. Then I texted her as him at first, said dont text me anymore. She said "what?" She didnt believe it was him so I said.. exactly, dont text him,, dont call him, dont anything! He cheated on me with you, and you helpedd him! (Side note, her son is a month older than Malia, and her bf left her)
The texting went on, I wasnt bitch... then she called, so I answered. She said i have the audacity to go through his phone! (Another side note, he hass always handed me his phone when asked anyway, just for random tthings). I didnt say much && she wanted to talk to him. Told her he was sleeping. Oh well. Put her on speaker phone & woke him. He was confused (good!) Then took it off speaker. She was just yelling at him in a ghetto fashion (seriously, dont get offended) saying you better tell her who jessica (oddly same name as the last bitch) is blah blah.
Ugh, seriously!
He doesnt know what he wants to tell her.
He also said he thinks he does this for his own selfiish reasons. .. his sex drive is very very high. Mine hasnt returned (not MY fault!) And it hurts.
But still, thats no reason to CHEAT!
I would go back to texas, he would stay in nyc, he would never get to see her & i know he would want to. Sigh..
(Btw, sorry for double letters in some words, ever since an update for this phone last sept, the keyboard isnt the same)
@mimii36 I agree..
I can understand you wanting to make it work the first time but he knew what he was doing the second time and he still did it anyway. He didn't care, for all you know this is not the second time. This is just the only time you have caught him.
If I had talked to that b**** on the phone it would have gone totaly different. Leave for yourself and your child because you both deserve so much better. If he wants to see the baby he will find a way to be in its life, he should have thought of that before sleeping with someone else.