what if he wouldnt marry you?
How long would you stay with your man if he's not trying to marry you? Would you continue to just be his "girlfriend/babymama" for years or would you leave? Seems like you can give a man everything under the sun & its still not enough sometimes. I'm just curious on about what you ladies would do?
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Def to each his own, I do think marriage is a great thing...right now tho for us I have his commitment and he mine:)
We are both 22. I understand that may be young but I don't see how age matters. Maturity is what's important and age doesn't always determine that.
However, I would let it ride out for a bit- then leave. I don't have time for that.
Im like you...I don't have time for all that either. Life is short. If you can't see me as your wife then I can't see you in my life.
Well it took nearly 2 years before I did it from when she started hassling and honestly I waited 12 months longer just to annoy her but I am that sort of guy sometimes lol. I ended up giving her a commitment ring after the first 12 months on valentines day and then about 8 months after I managed to sneak the ring away with a copy in its place. I got it engraved inside the ring with "marry me?". I waited an agonising extra 4 months with her wearing the engraved ring and not noticing the inscription on it before I said anything on the next valentines day. I had to work so I arranged for my sargeant to dress in dress uniform and knock at her parents door as my next of kin, at which point she thought something was wrong but her parents knew. After they went inside I came in through the back door I'm full dress uniform and asked her to look at the inside of her ring. I thought she was going to take my gun and kill me because it had the date of when it was done on it.
We have been married for 6 years now and together 14 so it can take a while. I know its hard but if you guys are happy together try be patient or turn the tables on him.