what am i going to do?
My son is completely out of control. everything with him is a power struggle. Whether its brushing his teeth or eating or even playing with the baby. He is constantly doing things that he KNOWS is wrong. we have to tell him at least half a dozen times to get dressed and he just sits in his room playing with his toys or looking at books and we have to actually go and stand there to make sure he does it. he lies about everything and even when we catch his lies he keeps trying to lie. He has a major anger problem and anytime we try to discipline him he yells back and if we have told him to go to his room he refuses and stomps and if we try to pick him up to take him there he hits and kicks. then when he's in there he throws stuff or slams the door repeatedly. he is 7 years old and its just getting worse and worse and I'm afraid that one day my fiance is going to get fed up with him enough to leave. we have tried everything from talking about his behaviour and how it affects us, to taking toys away. Right now his rooms totally cleared out of toys all he has is books and clothes. I just had a long talk with him because he threw something so I sent him to his room but he wouldnt go. He knew I couldn't do anything because I was feeding the baby but this time I got up anyways. he still wouldn't go so I had to push him (I can't pick him up he's too heavy) and he was pushing back and elbowing me. ugh I would write more but I have to deal with him. Idk any suggestions are welcome and so you know we are waiting to see the pediatrician to see what we can do about this
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You first have to talk with him ask him what is making him upset , that may help too to let you know why he is acting up.
@momma_erica both of us talk to him about respect and right and wrong but nothing gets through to him. we are always trying to figure out why he does what he does but he won't give us an answer. he says he doesn't know.