all this sex talk is making me want to put mine out there lol

a_wagner

Okay so my husband has only given me oral one time and i kinda felt uncomfortable cause it seemed like he didn't wanna be doing it...well we split up for a couple months and i dated a guy who was older and omg it was GREAT and now that me and my hubby are back together I want him to do it but he doesn't really "know how" that's why it seemed like he didn't wanna do it before cause he didn't know what he was doing...do you ladies have any pointers on how I can get my fun back? Lol

Jazzie

Practice makes perfect:-)

Aubreysmommy

Lol practice

kayleigh27

My husband sucks at it even though ive let him do it numerous times...don't know what his deal is lol but I can make him orgasm with oral

star1990

Am in the same boat. My partner has never gave oral. Been with him over a year now. And oral is one of my fave things and I don't know how to get him down there. I try my best to talk about it and try relax him. Telling him I don't expect him to be an expert n stuff lol. Someone help us? X

BigBelly

My hubbs sucks at it too! But it doesn't bother me cause i don't really care for it anyway lol. Tell him to do the alphabet lol

hsweetie21

Same problem my ex was great at it and my bf is really slow and doesn't do hit any of the right spots. His first giving oral I had to spot him and tell him I wasn't going to get off to it. He was soo embarssed.

hsweetie21

I also don't know what to say or teach him to get better at it

kayleigh27

Ive told him what to do and how but he says he gets tired and it hurts his neck...wtf my hands cramp up and my back hurts when I give a BJ! you don't see me complaining 8-|

TayTay

Tell him what u like, tell him where to pit his tongue, direct his head in the right ditection, tell him to watch porn

TayTay

@kayleigh27 lmbo sorry to laugh but that was funny when u said u dont complain when ur hand n back hurts

I'm glad I never had this prob. I love oral n my bd is a pro....too bad we rnt together anymore lol

dadof2n1togo

Tell him to try eating a peach using only his tongue lol.

kayleigh27

Naw its fine. Granted we were both virgins when we got married so he knows absolutely nothing about oral but at least I read up about how to do with that "tickle his pickle" book

Mimii36

Porn porn porn! Lol. I was my bfs first and he learned so many things from porn. His oral is great! Not the best I've had but is definitely close!

TayTay

@Kayleigh27 lol tickle his pickle...never heard of it. I did oral for the first time not to long ago n surprisingly it wasnt too hard (tmi) im sure eating isnt too hard either maybe he can learn by watching porn

kayleigh27

Yeah I bought it from a passion party @taytay it was about $10. You can get it off of amazon.com too around the same price. Has a lot of good pointers lol. We watch porn together and he watches alone but I don't know his tongue just doesn't work how I want it to lol

moodymommie

watch porn!! & show him where your hot spot is, you can start by playing dr & let him just look & touch thats how me & bf got aquainted

TayTay

@kayleigh27 lol aw...well practice makes perfect just like one of the other pregly ladies said

a_wagner

Lol I don't think I've ever had so many notifications at one time. I'm also worried about the extra yuck lol I never really had a problem with excess discharge with my first pregnancy and now its a whole different story. So I kinda have been staying away from doing anything really

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a_wagner

@mom2ing haha that does make sense. @kendylsmommy I didn't have that problem cause I had a c section lol but that's funny...I would ask him lol

star1990

@a_wagner I am there with you I have loads of discharge its gotten worse the further I get. I am 26 weeks now. And not did anything sexual in about 3 months because of the discharge. X

DavidnAadynsMama

All you can do is talk to him. Try discussing it before you even plan on having sex. That is easier than trying to help him out DURING lol. My hubby is pretty great at it and loves doing it. One night we just sat and talked about it. I kinda explained to him how it works and what feels best etc. I also asked him about his penis...like which part was the most sensitive, head or shaft. Ive never had a problem doing it and he always tells me how great it is, but it helped and made it even better for him since we talked about it. He also got even better at oral on me just from our little chat and me telling him what felt good and WHY. Him knowing why something does or does not feel good made it even easier for him to hit all the sweet spots lol. Definitely talk about everything prior to having sex instead of trying to walk him through it during. Make him feel comfortable and let him know that its perfectly okay if he isnt perfect to begin with