parents what to do with them
To make a long story short my parents and I got into a huge family feud while I was pregnant. It was over money that they were not paying back and everything got out of control. Now when it was time for AJ to be born I started talking to my mom again. I asked b4 my surgery if she wanted me to go pick her up so that she could be there for his birth, and I was told that no one would baby sit my sisters kids. I also want to point out that a couple months b4 I got pregnant we went to Vegas and my mom had no problem leaving her on her own then to tag along. We struggled badly and I know that if my mom was there for us like she always promised she would be it would not have been so hard. Not to sound petty but AJ had gas bad, and I had no clue if she was here she would have known right away.
Now Arnold company pays for a hotel in Fl (we live in Ohio) for three days every January I asked if she would go to help watch AJ. We would pay for her food and any tickets we decided to buy and all she needed to do was baby sit a couple times so we could have dinner. And she told my no because she did not want to leave my sisters kids. It hurts because I feel like she is putting my sisters kids way b4 AJ and I we do not live close so I might see them about 3-4 times a year. And every time I try to do something I am told that charlines needs her for this or that. And I understand she cannot afford daycare but this is once every couple years.
Should I just stop trying I don’t want AJ to figure out he is not as important to my parents as my sisters kids?
It is really sad because I didn't get one gift from my family I spent so many years going all out for them. Major money and never expected anything back. I finally have a baby and not 1 dam cograts cards.
Now Arnold company pays for a hotel in Fl (we live in Ohio) for three days every January I asked if she would go to help watch AJ. We would pay for her food and any tickets we decided to buy and all she needed to do was baby sit a couple times so we could have dinner. And she told my no because she did not want to leave my sisters kids. It hurts because I feel like she is putting my sisters kids way b4 AJ and I we do not live close so I might see them about 3-4 times a year. And every time I try to do something I am told that charlines needs her for this or that. And I understand she cannot afford daycare but this is once every couple years.
Should I just stop trying I don’t want AJ to figure out he is not as important to my parents as my sisters kids?
It is really sad because I didn't get one gift from my family I spent so many years going all out for them. Major money and never expected anything back. I finally have a baby and not 1 dam cograts cards.
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Sorry for ur situation!!