2 questions in one !
My mom asked me if I was gonna have another c-section and I told her no and that I was gonna try to deliver vaginally. Well this woman didn't understand why I just wouldnt have another c section like she won't there when everything happened the last time lol but my only concern this go round with having a c section is the fact I would have to be under full anesthesia and I don't know how that would affect my breathing because we know the epidural is what caused the breathing issue and that when they placed me under full anesthesia to have the emergency c section is what further enhanced it so why on earth would I even want to go that route starting out granted who knows if I try vaginally it ends up in a csection no one knows but I just want to try to avoid it at all cost and be able to witness the birth of my child...so what would y'all do?? Giving the circumstances of what happen would you just go ahead and schedule a csection or would you try to deliver vaginally?
Secondly, my sister, me, and my mom feel that my son kaleb will not like this baby and will in fact hurt it lol sad to say my son is very jealous and very attached me and we kind noticed his behavior lately and he has diverted back to being a baby baby and has to be held and he wakes up during the night and he just wants full attention anytime he gets the chance he smacks kicks hits my belly because he knows that it's something in there lol and I'm trying to introduce the fact to him and its not going to good...so those of you who have multiple children how did you all get the first child adapted to the new child and if you all had a hard time and what did you all do to change that ...by the time i deliver the baby i think kaleb will be 17months...I just want him to be able to know that I won't love him any differently or take any attention from him I just have to share it with new baby
Secondly, my sister, me, and my mom feel that my son kaleb will not like this baby and will in fact hurt it lol sad to say my son is very jealous and very attached me and we kind noticed his behavior lately and he has diverted back to being a baby baby and has to be held and he wakes up during the night and he just wants full attention anytime he gets the chance he smacks kicks hits my belly because he knows that it's something in there lol and I'm trying to introduce the fact to him and its not going to good...so those of you who have multiple children how did you all get the first child adapted to the new child and if you all had a hard time and what did you all do to change that ...by the time i deliver the baby i think kaleb will be 17months...I just want him to be able to know that I won't love him any differently or take any attention from him I just have to share it with new baby
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As far as vaginal birth or c section...I say try vaginal and see how it goes. With my second I had a scheduled c section but went into labor about 6 hours before I had to be at the hospital. If I had been dilated when I got there I was going to try vaginal. I went 23 hours with my first and only made it to 4cm so I didn't want to go thru that again.
My babyboy is the same way he smacks my belly and wakes up ib the middle of the night like if he is a newborn i dont know what has gotten into him but i try to give him alot of attention i dont want to feel like if im leaving him out once the baby is born. I honestly dont know how he is going to be with a new baby around he plays really rough and is such a bully i hope he is gentle with him. =/
Me and you are on the same boat @salasmommy
my son can't really understand a lot so if I ask him to get something for me he doesnt know but I think we need to do a learning camp in the next few months so he can be able to help out with the baby...this will be a struggle @mimi36