SAHM
So, in order to make my children functional members of society, I will no longer be cleaning up after them. My husband as well. I get it, I'm a SAHM, so I should do all of these things. But, breastfeeding is not going so well anymore because I continually chase little (and one big one) monsters around, cleaning up their messes. Obviously I will pick up after myself and the two babies still. But as for Destiny (7), and Brianna (5), they are very capable of cleaning up. I am tired. Very tired. I get up at 7:30 most days, and then go to bed around 12:30-1am. When I wake up, I take a 10 minute shower and it starts. I'm worn out by 4pm! So, to save my sanity (and my choice to breastfeed), this has to happen. My question is, HOW do I make this happen?!
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http://www.busykidshappymom.org/p/life-skills.html?m=1
http://www.scribd.com/mobile/doc/49616309?width=360
What happened to TEACHING our children?
I'm sorry but I don't agree with "training" and forcing children to obey your every demand.
And yes I know it's called potty training for a reason, but I'd like to think we respect our kids enough to take the time to teach them things that are necessary as they grow. Not because we just want them to do it.
@Wilsomom There is no possible way to keep them by me at all times without denying them childhood activities. I just want them to be functional, not take away what being a kid is all about.
@smcox Thank you, I loved the first link! That's exactly what I needed, age appropriate, simple (not too time consuming) chores. >:D<
@sehra4177 That gives me a lot of comfort and confidence that chore charts work. How much does she usually earn for allowance?
@jules Do you remember where you bought it? I made one out of posterboard, but was thinking about getting a dry erase board of some sort.
@wilsomom I gotcha.
@natashalynn Oh, you didn't offend me. Lol. I just didn't want to be looped in with those parents who have children like you were speaking of.
@Natashalynn Well there's a big difference between my views and the "worldly" view of parenting, so we'll just agree to disagree.
Each step can take a few minutes or a few days depending on the child & the new task. But that's just me & how I do it, everyone's different! I guess that's why I keep them with me so much. Now that I think about it, my kids are rarely out of hearing range ever... That's just how I am I guess.
(Ooops..did I say "training" again?! Lol Ha ha ha)