why?! (am I scared of hubby cheating)

edited March 2011 in Pregnant
I cry Soooo much n I'm not sure if I'm over reacting..n if I am I'm scared of hubby cheating or leaving. Idk y..='[ its so hard. First it was because he ate all the samoas (girl scout cookies) n now cuz he commented on a girls Facebook status..????

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  • Oh, I'm a cry baby too.. my hubby took a girl he works with to pick up lunch, but didn't tell me. I just seen his messages. So I was mad. Then suddenly starts ironing his work uniform every night & smelling all nice for work. Yeah, I'm gonna go nuts.
  • Ya..its scary!! I'm not that far along and already feel like a cow wearing a hippo suit!!
  • I'm 19 weeks, haven't gained a pound (as of last appointment) & am just now barely showing.. & I even feel like a hippo. Boo to boys.
  • Yea..pretty much. N he told me tonite he wants a divorce.:'(
  • What??? Was he being serious???
  • Yeah now I'm working with the first sergeant on moving all of my crap back to Ohio and gotta get divorce papers tomorrow when he gets home..ugh I'm so upset n dnt wanna b cuz I dnt wanna loose my baby..:'(
  • I think these are normal thoughts because I have been going through them since the start I am now 32wks + 2 days and feel like he wants every women but me as well as I am a cry baby which I never was before.
  • I'm sorry your going through such a crappy time but to be honest... STUFF HIM!!! Men are rubbish with feelings, its him who's gonna miss out... you enjoy your life and your beautiful baby :) lots of love to you and your beautiful bump x
  • My fiancee would take a co worker home and never told me so one time we were fighting he ended up cheating on me.

    Don't let it get too far, sit down and ask him if he is happy in the relationship and if there is anything he would want to chan ge. Especially if he is doing things out of the ordinary and behind your back, don't bring this up to him now you need to reel him back to the reality of why he is with you, don't piss him off into someone elses arms. This person is showing an interest in him and he likes it, something is lacking in his happiness with you. Instead of telling you this he is stepping out of the relationship, not your fault. Start with him and his feelings, what he wants or is missing, let him know you love him and feel like there is something missing between you and you need to get out go on a romantic date plan time together weekly. Fix what he needs if he tells you, compliment him, show interest in things you never did before, jump him. Don't let someone out do what you can for your man, don't accuse him of cheating you can talk about your feelings when you know you've secured your relationship again. So much info on this on-line, never ignore your instinct it could be too late.
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