To anyone who has ever been cheated on.
I was cheated on by my husband last year. (If you don't remember, my post is still on here). Anyway. My question is how do you get over it? Like how can i stop thinking about it? It still pops in my head all the time! I feel like it was my choice to stay with him and work things out so i don't wanna think about it anymore. Idk how to get past it tho. And it still hurts sooo bad when i think about it yet i can't stop
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It could come down to 2 things, either he has tried to gain your trust back and its just not enough for you or he assumed he didn't have to try to gain your trust because you decided to let it go. Both things can cause those thoughts to come back. If all he has to do is show you he is trustworthy then the relationship has hope, but if he has tried to gain your trust and its not enough for you then you will never be happy because nothing he ever does will be enough for you to trust him again.
I think some of us think that we can forgive something, but never really do. I hope you both can get through this. Try counseling, anything that can help you both.
It is very hard to make this kind of decision, but it has to be made before it gets negative. Is it important that your relationship and family stays together, or is it important that you have that peace of mind even if it means that you may not have this relationship.
Communication is key. Seek counseling so that the things that need to be said can be said, and the decisions that have to be made can be made. Like i said earlier, i hope you can get this sorted