@bwhite55019 I so agree with you....multiple abortions are just crazy....like you didn't learn from the first one and being over 18 you are an adult and I don't think it is right to bow out at the expense of a helpless child....Children are a blessing and God gave it to you at that time and that place for a particular reason
@1_Bubbly_Mommy sorry that's my opinion and I feel if your going to be a good mom then your life is over. Its not just go anywhere do anything you will have a child now and they are a blessing don't get me wrong. You have to also consider what quality of life is going to be for your child. She is smart enough to make the right decision. I just like to stress to young people that even though having a baby is a blessing you will have big responsibilities now. Your life will never be the same!
@saylorsmommy that's why I don't wanna watch it. My baby is planned so I don't think I even have a reason to watch it even though I am pro choice. Some women want to live out their 20's and I get that, but petsonally, I want to be a mom at 19. My partying days are already over. I actually had a long ranting discussion about that.
@steeny please don't advocate abortion. She already said she's had one before, so of course she has reasoning behind her decisions. As you said, she's smart enough to make the right decision. Please leave it at that and leave this topic thread alone. You've said your peace, what more do you need to say? You do realize that there are probably barren women on here who have tried and tried to no avail. They would probably have been very happy to adopt either of those babies you aborted.
I had a baby at sixteen, nowhere near mature. But, I did it! Nineteen now. You have huge responsibilities with a child no matter how old you are, rich or poor. You make it seem like you can't accomplish anything or enjoy your life. I did! I'm a nurse now, & a great Mommy. You roll with the punches, not run away from them.
@steeny I completely agree especially having been at all sides of this spectrum. I only think it's sad that a lot people can't take it for what it is an opinion!! Plus technically this is just a place to sound off opinions since many people ask for help with tons of medical problems and none of the people responding are doctors it's all coming down to OPINIONS!!! However I will say a child doesn't mean that you're life is over just life as you knew it is. Kids can be a wonderful thing but also a huge burden!!
@Steeny i have responsibilities now i got to school and to work to take care of myself and i was doing it before i got pregnant my life is far from over my life is just beginning i don't party and i don't act all crazy i got that out in my ealier years of being a teenager and i matured from that and when i graduated from high school i took on more responsibilities so i love my life no matter how it goes or how it will go my life won't be over until I say so and to me my life won't be over until i take my last warm breath.
I would like to say I am not trying to piss anyone off and I don't know her situation but I am supportive of abortions because it makes me mad that people feel they can just have a child and the welfare system will pay for everything. Its there if you need it and way to many people take advantage of it. All of these young girls think its okay I will just go on welfare. Sorry to piss people off but those are my opinions and I appriciate you all holding your tounges. Not that I will be offended if you are mad at me. I will not say anything else about it. Sorry for upsetting all of you. That was not my intent. I just want her to know if that's the decision she makes there are people who support her either way.
@steeny I don't think to be a good parent that. Your life is over. I'm 22 and feel like my life is just beginning as I become I mother. You're right we are all entitled to our own opinion Ans I'm sure she is smart enough to make the right Choice for her but I think telling someone their life will be over if they keep their baby is uncalled for.
And yes that was steenys opinion but the comments i have wrote are also my opinions and in opinions you are either agreeing with the situation or disagreeing and when people takes your agreement or disagreement wrong that's how arguments start.
They DO if you TRY throughout your life. My daughters dad didn't want anything to do with me, I lost all of my friends, & disappointed a lot of my family. I fought through all of that & proved myself to my family, daughter, & just me. Life is tough, God won't put you through anything you cant handle.
@steeny well not fighting words or anythng like that but just like that makes u mad, it makes us mad that girls think they can just open their legs and not deal with the consequences...and excuse me but ive had a few of my cousins have kids from 15-20 in age, and worked went to school and didnt recieve welfare...so girls learn about protective sex and keep ur pants up cause all u need is five minutes of pleasure to end up pregnate....
@katieee10 I agree God won't put you through anything you can't handle all I'm saying is that not everyone has such good luck as you it's not an insult in anyway!!
@navybabyonway sorry I wasn't more clear. Its not over just never the same. And I apologized I was not trying to offend people so I will say it once again I AM SORRY I POSTED MY " MEAN " OPINION. I was not trying to hurt anyone once again this is my opinion and I am sorry you don't all agree but that's what makes the world go round. I will never again say your life is over if you have a kid because that is not what I ment.you are just not as free after you have a child. Sorry it was worded wrongly ONCE AGAIN I AM SORRY TO HAVE ANGERED ALL OF YOU THAT WAS NOT MY INTENT!!!!!!
@matthewsmommy04 If they feel responsible enough to have sex, they need to be responsible for the consequences of their actions. Adoption is an option! A baby doesn't deserve punishment for someone's irresponsibility.
I'm not tryna be rude but I think its a tad rude to talk about abortions to woman that are pregnant. I believe if u lay down n do it you should have to take care of your responsibilties. I was told I could never have kids but I'm pregnant and exspecting my first child in June. The sin is in the sex, the child is a innocent little person. But n the end ur gonna have to make ur own choice. Wish u the best for u n ur lil one....
@matthewsmommy04 def. Not but adoption would be the best choice...jst upsets me how people would die to have a child and others dcide they can do da miracle and get rid of them like they wre a handbag... right or not? The nly reason people should have abortions is if raped, but responsible people thnk diffrent
@steeny .... if you feel to be a good mom your life is over you couldnt be any further from the truth! my life didnt start until I had my daughter, and you just saying that offends me! I was a partier I thought things were great the way they were ... I had alot of friends tell me they would get an abortion if they would have been in my position. I have always been against abortion just for convenience. my mother was a single mom and I always am thankful she decided to hav me! you should be thankful for the blessing of a baby and of you are not ready share that blessing with someone who is through adoption.
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Sorry to piss people off but those are my opinions and I appriciate you all holding your tounges. Not that I will be offended if you are mad at me. I will not say anything else about it. Sorry for upsetting all of you. That was not my intent. I just want her to know if that's the decision she makes there are people who support her either way.