@katieee10 I agree people need to be responsible for their actions but they also need to do what's best for them and everyone's life is different. Adoption is always an option but so is abortion and I'm no one to say either is the right but no one else on here can say it either.
I dont think anyone has a right to judge she posted a discussion and should expect to get all different points of view so I agree @steeny is just saying her personal experience.Like the rest of you are saying your PERSONAL opinions on the situation everyone should agree to disagree
@ Steeny u can voice ur opinion but abortion is not an answer for poor decsion making...so what ur man didn't work out or you want to still party and do you but the only solution for that is to abstain from sex...if u don't ur responsible and like I said one abortion is sad...but it happens 2 abortions is just irresponsible and reckless....maybe God was trying to slow you down and fix ur life....so ur too week for adoption but strong enough to kill....not cool
& jus so everyone knws I think 1 abortion was enough...I was on the pill wen I got pregnant this time...but like I said Idk what I'm gonna do but as for as abortion that's not my choice for now...
I don't understand why adoption is such an unspeakable thing in comparison to ABORTION???! I'm not here to change anybodys mind but the thinking that "If i can't have my baby then no one can" is like incredibly selfish and sad... I'm so done here.
and this is an opinion voiced forum with mothers who love and can't wait to be moms so no one is saying u can not voice ur opinion just don't get mad when we voice ours and I mean no disrespect even if it comes out like it but everyone has the right to say what they feel
@ preggointx you are correct in the sense everyone has a right to voice their opinions but I seen one comment that said because @steeny opinion was different from the others that she should be moderated (?) I dont agree with that and you think that all users on here are mothers or can't wait to be mothers but in the last couple of weeks I have seen so many different post about abortions that I think its just pregnant women from all walks of life looking for advice and opinions
And @preggointx... you took the words out of my mouth. People use abortion as an easy out not thinking about the life they are taking. Yes there are a lot of kids on the welfare system but there are things such as birth control (which I know isnt fool proof) and what about abstinence. I was with my ex for nine years and made the choice to not create a child with him. It wasn't difficult. Any time you have sex and sperm comes in contact with the vagina you are risking pregnancy. Its that simple. It shouldn't be taken out on the life who didn't ask to be created.
Excuse me everyone ok u have opinions & if u dnt agree w/me fine but no need to be on MY discussion..cuz like I said nobody knws what choice I'm making jus to make it CLEAR ITS MY CHOICE! So if unless u can voice ur opinions a less disrespectful way u can wright one another NOT ON MY DISCUSSION
@may1mommy2be I didn't say she needed to moderated wrong person she can say what she wants as can I...that's her but I would say the same thing to a stranger or my sister dealing with abortion I just don;t understand how ppl can see abortion as being better than adoption...but that's my opinion anyone can be pro abortion I'm not and I will speak on it everytime I get the chance
I look at it like this... if overpopulation is what worries people.. then why don't we invent a giant vacuum that we can suck and tear apart anyone whom we please? This way it would be like aborting the people on welfare and anyone else we don't feel like having around. Oh I forget... if you've had the privilege of being born, you magically have rights for that not to happen. Silly me.
@preggointx I might have misworded that I didnt mean you had said I just seen it in the comments and did not agree with it. I just like all honest opinions and peoples reasoning for them that makes for good conversations I just dont like all the censorship or the fact people think if someones thoughts are different than theirs then they are wrong everyone has the reason for the decisions they make in life good or bad so don't get me wrong I appreciate people open and honest enough to speak on how they fell or what they believe (including yourself) :-D so on that I hope everyone the best in there own personal life ...
I was pregnant at 17 I had a babygirl jan 29 09 my babyfather changed treated me like I was nothing cheated on me with girls I attended school with. he did not help me at all! With the baby. I got prego a second Time by him I knew I cudnt keep that baby I was junior in high school with 1baby already so my dad took me to get an abortion it was horrible! Very painful it looked weird I wanted to kick the doctor it was worse then giving birth! I was sad for a while I regret doing that to that baby. After that I got on birth control but a year later I got prego again by my bf abortion is out of the question it seems like its ment for me to be pregnant again cus I tried my best to prevent pregnancy by using birth control and condoms but it still happen I'm 19 14wks and 3days I have a wonderful bf/babyfather by my side supporting me threw this and with my 2year old daughter I am very excited about this pregnacy but still till this momment I really wish I didn't get that abortion.
& I thought about adoption but the only way I would do that if my parents r sister agree to take care of my child jus for the next 2yrs then ill b done w/school...& I would not want them to adopt jus be the primary care givers..& of course ill be around...guess honestly that's more what I'm leaning towards...cuz I agree with some of u abortion does not sound like the answer for me...the 1st time was the right choice under the circumstances this time jus cnt see myself doin that ever again...
Once again mrs_annenyc. Its not about you, its about the baby!! Sure it may not have been bad for u but I'm sure that poor little baby didn't think it was "not that bad" .. this new idea of thinking drives me crazy, its just so selfish! U have the right to your opinion but please don't try and tell someone to get an abortion like its no big deal, like its just a walk in the park!
This is HER post. If you don't agree, don't like it, DON'T READ IT. You ladies are ruining this app just because you can't be okay with keeping your mouth shut if you don't like something & I'm so sick of it! Grow up. & if someone doesn't like this & has something bad to say, I don't care, I will ignore you, so save it! @sweetness06, I'm glad you're waiting so you can be positive with whatever choice you make (: that's already a great step in being responsible & I wish you nothing but the best!
I feel like everyone on his arguing on my discussion rather than giving a word of advice..to u mommies who are soo again abortion y wouldn't jus say glad ur not going thru with it rather ur passing judgements...
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And @preggointx... you took the words out of my mouth. People use abortion as an easy out not thinking about the life they are taking. Yes there are a lot of kids on the welfare system but there are things such as birth control (which I know isnt fool proof) and what about abstinence. I was with my ex for nine years and made the choice to not create a child with him. It wasn't difficult. Any time you have sex and sperm comes in contact with the vagina you are risking pregnancy. Its that simple. It shouldn't be taken out on the life who didn't ask to be created.
I just don;t understand how ppl can see abortion as being better than adoption...but that's my opinion anyone can be pro abortion I'm not and I will speak on it everytime I get the chance
@sweetness06, I'm glad you're waiting so you can be positive with whatever choice you make (: that's already a great step in being responsible & I wish you nothing but the best!