Sh*t just got real
I'm seriously over it. I almost have no words to explain how angry I am so I'll just explain the story. The x and I were getting along great as FRIENDS. We're defiantly better off friends. So I invite him over tO discuss our daughters first birthday and organize it, and he let's me know that his mum is having a second one. Ummm why? Because she doesn't want to come to mine.. Well too bad!!! But no, he doesn't want his mummy to miss out so he agreed that it was a great idea. AND there inviting half my guest list. All his friends, and his massive family.. Which means I may as well cancel the hall and have it in my backyard with my few friends and tiny family... Meaning mum and dad.. Who are getting a divorce as we speak... Great... So what's the catch?? I'm not invited... And I was supposed to be ok with that.
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Do they plan to do this her entire life? Separatw everything? And think that's not going tohave a negative affect on her? It surely won't have any sort of a good one.
Why do they dislike uou so much!!
You have every right to be upset, because the ideal thing is that your daughter can enjoy her birthday with both of you present... But it doesn't always work that way unfortunately. Im sorry you have to go through this. I think this is one of the downfalls of parenting.
The only good piece of advice i can give you is always be the smart one and pick your battles. Sometimes you'll have to give into things that will ruin your plans, but in the long run those sacrifices will be greatly appreciated by your daughter.
And one last thing, if for whatever reason your x's mom talks crap about you to your daughter... your daughter will grow up to not have any kind of respect for her grandma, because your actions will show her that her grandma is a big fat liar and instigator.