Omg, i want to scream and cry all at the same time!!!
Its been 7wks since i had my baby, and it's literally been 7wks since i cleaned my house. My baby takes up so much of my time and energy that i just cannot get around to cleaning. To make matters worse, hubby is no freaking help. He actually makes more of a mess. Im going crazy! I hate this. I cannot live like this anymore.
I ask hubby to watch the baby so i can get some cleaning done, but he bugs my baby too much and he makes him cry. And then when the baby starts crying, he hands him over to me and i can't finish anymore.
I just had a talk with him. I told him he needs to help me with the baby. I told him that the mess in this house is making me go crazy, it depresses me. I literally cry about it. I hate that my home looks like a dump. I wasn't rude, i was nice and i told him that i understand he works long hours and that he comes home tired, but this baby is also his. Now im not asking him to do something ridiculous, all i ask him is to hold/watch the baby for at least an hour so i can tidy up and that's it. Well when i was done, all he said was "ok. Im going to sleep" and he walked away like if i had not said a word to him. Seriously?! I could strangle him in his sleep right now!!! I just opened up to him about why i've been so annoyed by everything and what my feelings are and he totally ignores me! I so want to pull my hair out! I WANT TO CRY SO BAD RIGHT NOW!!!
(sorry for my long post. This is honestly the only place i have to vent too.)
I ask hubby to watch the baby so i can get some cleaning done, but he bugs my baby too much and he makes him cry. And then when the baby starts crying, he hands him over to me and i can't finish anymore.
I just had a talk with him. I told him he needs to help me with the baby. I told him that the mess in this house is making me go crazy, it depresses me. I literally cry about it. I hate that my home looks like a dump. I wasn't rude, i was nice and i told him that i understand he works long hours and that he comes home tired, but this baby is also his. Now im not asking him to do something ridiculous, all i ask him is to hold/watch the baby for at least an hour so i can tidy up and that's it. Well when i was done, all he said was "ok. Im going to sleep" and he walked away like if i had not said a word to him. Seriously?! I could strangle him in his sleep right now!!! I just opened up to him about why i've been so annoyed by everything and what my feelings are and he totally ignores me! I so want to pull my hair out! I WANT TO CRY SO BAD RIGHT NOW!!!
(sorry for my long post. This is honestly the only place i have to vent too.)
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Since we found out we are having another baby, I blew up at him the other day about how lazy he is & how when the new better gets here he better step-up his game. It worked the last week & half he has been cleaning & taking more responsibility with caring for our daughter. Yesterday he just realized I haven't yelled at him or been made at him in a week & a half. He said "is that all it takes for you to be nice to me & in a good mood" All I can say is I hope this new leaf he's turned lasts.
@natashalynn i don't have a sling, but i have a baby carrier. I tried cleaning like that once but my baby is too heavy to carry him around while cleaning. And since he sleeps all night, his naps during the day are real short.
@stephforever89 omg why are men like that?!?! They see that stuff is clean and they get stuff dirty all over again. Its like they do it on purpose. I only have one cousin close by but she has an 11 month old that keeps her very busy too so leaving my son there is really not an option.