Am I right in thinking this is an app for pregnant woman.......you know, where we can get advice, friendship and support....if so, grow up and get on with life. Were all mums or just becoming mums. I deal with this crap daily from my 14 yr old.........@JunnaBuggBaby I can see your point of view but isn't about time to go back to being nice to one another....
In her actual discussion I dont believe I said anything that was way out of hand, or the only one that had a different view on it. And what I said to her was for reason in my opinion. And the only people I feel owe an apology to is the people that ive hurt with my words during my outrage under this screen name.
@mommyto1soontobe2 yes I WAS acting 12. BECAUSE i wanted to show the users on here what REAL JUDGING, BASHING, AND BEING RUDE REALLY IS. Stop pointing fingers and get on with discussions. Simple. And @cheryl74 thats the reason for this discussion ;-)
Yupp. Saying my goodbyes as JunaBuggBaby. :-h again, sorry for the people ive hurt through the discussions, None of it was meant please dont take it to heart.
But am I wrong... everything we say on here is an opinion. Nothing is factual and even the facts can be different from docs or scientists. human nature to judge,human nature to state opinions and not think of outcome. In life we all are wrong in something and according to others opinions we can be wrong all the time.
I think that was just a desperate way to get attention so inmature by the way if you need friends because u feel alone or things like that try to be nice sweetie >-)
Obviously it was immature, again im not asking for sympathy apologies or more drama. lol I know the reactions I would get in this post. And yes I WAS BEING a crazy bitch thanks for pointing that out ;-)
You are totally tryimg to start drama! If you need some attention this bad go talk shit to ppl on the street. But I'm sure you're not woman enough for that. Ypu can easily do it hiding behind a computer. And i hope you didn't expect sympathy or apologies. That would make me sicker than you already have
I get where you're coming from @Junna. There have been soooo many times I wanted to post my opinion but knew it would lead to issues, so I just bit my tounge and moved on. I have this problem everyday. I am a blunt person who doesn't find it necessary to sugar coat the truth. Why beat around the bush when you can be straight forward and get your point across 100% and leaving no room for questioning? I get the same response as you, and that is that I'm being hateful and rude, when in reality I care enough to be completely honest. I wish more people were as straight forward as I was. However, it is possible to keep things classy by carefully choosing words. Also, the tone you use really makes a difference. I don't necessarily agree with what you were doing, and unfortunatley folks aren't willing to put their feelings aside to see where you're coming from, but I can definitely see your point.
Although I didn't see all of your posts, I did see a few of them and they weren't "opinions" they were outright hateful. There was name calling and comments made that clearly weren't opinions so I can see how that upset some of the ladies (possibly even men). That's where I believe the issue lied.
Some have much thicker skin than others, and some people will take offense to pretty much anything. It is never our job to judge other's opinions, but we should respect them because it's part of our human nature and more importantly, our right to voice said opinion. This doesn't necessarily mean we must agree with those opinions (because I've heard some things that make NO sense haha), but it certainly helps to not be so biased and look at both sides to every opinion.
With all that being said, I think this could be a learning experience for everyone. It's not our jobs to judge others for their beliefs and opinions, but it's also not okay to go offend people because people disagree with you. Debate and presentation of views is a beautiful thing, and although it can get your blood boiling, remember to keep a clear head, try to see where the other person is coming from, and if you have to ask yourself if your comment is offensive, move on because it probably is.
Sooo I see that out of making this screen name it has taken from the animosity that other women have had with one another in previous discussions. I dont regret it. Yet I still do apologize for the hurtful words. AFTER the situation with mama0811 and squrit299
Will you just go away already, like you said you were going to?! You're rambling on & on trying to prove a point behind your actions. You can't reason ignorance sweetheart! You hurt a lot of people's feelings because your maturity level is SO grade school. Quit flappin' your mouth & delete your account already! THANKS
@BkE913 I made regular comments on some discussions that werent biased or judgmental at all, and when people began pointing fingers thats when I began saying hurtful things. Basically to point out what is in fact judging, bashing and being hurtful. I suppose the thickness of the skin plays a role and maybe some people see lighter things as rude but in all honesty if you cant handle simple opinions on a forum you shouldnt be here. Yes there is a way to say things, But remember the hurtful words, mudslinging all began AFTER bad experiences and sooo many at that with people pointing fingers just to play role as moderator!
You sank the discussion This Isn't For Me, can this be sank, too? Nothing productive will come out of trolling. This isn't for me was at least light hearted and venting.
:-D Carry on and overlook the discussion and it wouldnt make a difference to you that way would it @Kateee10 ?? Continue on with other discussions theres thousands of them!! Woohoo BYE L-)
Ok everyone agreed tht shes childish and immature and everything. Even tho i missed wat happened n dnt have an opinion i dnt agree with wats going on here cuz i jus see a whole bunch of ladies acting the same way u said she did. I pray for the day this stops on pregly, til then i will continue to go on vaca frm it.
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Although I didn't see all of your posts, I did see a few of them and they weren't "opinions" they were outright hateful. There was name calling and comments made that clearly weren't opinions so I can see how that upset some of the ladies (possibly even men). That's where I believe the issue lied.
Some have much thicker skin than others, and some people will take offense to pretty much anything. It is never our job to judge other's opinions, but we should respect them because it's part of our human nature and more importantly, our right to voice said opinion. This doesn't necessarily mean we must agree with those opinions (because I've heard some things that make NO sense haha), but it certainly helps to not be so biased and look at both sides to every opinion.
With all that being said, I think this could be a learning experience for everyone. It's not our jobs to judge others for their beliefs and opinions, but it's also not okay to go offend people because people disagree with you. Debate and presentation of views is a beautiful thing, and although it can get your blood boiling, remember to keep a clear head, try to see where the other person is coming from, and if you have to ask yourself if your comment is offensive, move on because it probably is.
I'm done rambling now lol. Carry on, folks!
Some people never cease to amaze me!
Good luck to u all.