OKAY LADIES THIS IS SERIOUS.... PLEASE HELP ME!! :'(

DaiLynn725DaiLynn725
edited January 2011 in Pregnant
I JUST FOUND OUT MY SO CALLED BOYFRIEND HAS BEEN CHEATING ON ME OUR ENTIRE RELATIONSHIP... THERE ARE SO MANY EMOTIONS RUNNING THROUGH MY BODY... I DONT KNOW WHAT TO DO!!! :'''''(

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  • islandgirlislandgirl
    Oh sweety that's not good sorry to hear that. I don't dont what to say about that. All i can say is juz b strong for ur baby. Or Maybe u should talk to him about it see if he's willing to change or something like that.
    Good luck hun!
  • beejay28beejay28
    I agree , if he isn't willing to change then yu have to think abt if thtts the type of man yu want as a role model for yur baby pray nd try to talk it out
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  • finallypreggofinallypreggo
    My now husband cheated on me when we started dating in or 3rd mo dating with his ex wife! It was so hard to forgive him but it was the best choice i did. He has changed COMPLETELY! He wont even go out with out me and not bc i ask him to but bc he wants. Sometimes a second chance is all they need :) i wish u the best of luck
  • mamaOf2mamaOf2
    Omg im so sorry im hear for u..how did u find out n how long u been 2gether
  • vette_devilvette_devil
    I just want to say I am so sorry & send you long-distance hugs... I have been cheated on twice before & I know the pain you're feeling on top of being pregnant. All I can say is just take a few days to let it sink in & collect your thoughts before you do anything. Just take care of you & baby first & don't agree to do anything until you're ready. I'm sending you all the best wishes & hope you get peace...
  • DaiLynn725DaiLynn725
    The girl called me n she told me that they been together for almost a year and that they were planning on moving together... I HATE HIM!! WE WERE TOGETHER FOR A YEAR
  • finallypreggofinallypreggo
    The same thing happened to me. She called me too and told me he would tell her that he wouldnt leave me bc he felt sry for me but she also said things that i knew werent true. Hang in there trust ur heart and remember..us girls were vicious. And sometimes there are girls that will try to destroy u with intrigues or lies. Just dont do anything in an anger rush. I forgave my now husband and till this day he still making it up to me. I really do wish u the best. And in worst case scenario u are left with a little miracle wich is ur bby :)
  • mammanoucheemammanouchee
    Oh hun, im sorry. I would just do a very serious talk with him. Tell him that what happened and that you have no time for that stuff, if he want to be with you then he needs to step it up cause you cant wait forever and only girls can take so much. Just prepare to do this journey with or without him. This time he needs to be very honest or it will be too late for sorries. You have a baby on the way and with this much stress going on, he NEEDS to fix it soon. Do what is best for you. And yes 2nd chances are good sometimes but some ppl dont deserve them. Im just saying. But im sorry hun. Try to take it easy. We are all here for you. Kepp us updated. No good women should have to go through bullshit like that. Sorry for the cussing but it is true. Its takes a boy to be with you but a man to be an honest one.
  • mammanoucheemammanouchee
    Too add a little more, i would feel betrayed. I know you love him and all but sometimes things like this, esp him cheating the whole entire relationship , sometimes letting go is your new begining. But like i said, do what is BEST for you and baby.
  • DaiLynn725DaiLynn725
    Well thank you ladies and you guys have literally became my best friends...lol.. corny but true... IM DONE WITH HIS LIEING CHEATING AS*... HE CAN BUST THE DOORS TO HE%L WIDE OPEN... IM DONE WITH HIM. ITS ABOUT ME AND MY DAUGHTER.. ROGER THAT BI*^H!!!!
  • magcawmagcaw
    Wow...I'm so sorry. That's just horrible. :( I agree with everyone else, focus on you and your baby now. I'm so sorry.
  • collegemommatobecollegemommatobe
    Girl I just went through the same ish but I caught him... We are trying to work things out just for the babies sake but I'm just taking it day by day cause anything can happen he's lied to me once so he can do it again....I'm trying not to stress too much about it cause I'm keeping my baby in mind and don't want to stress and lose it
  • mamaOf2mamaOf2
    Wow how.do u knw she aint lying...may be a jealous ex? I have had dat done b4
  • julies_2julies_2
    Awwww boo:(
  • ninersmija408ninersmija408
    edited January 2011
    Make sure ur facts are true there are alot of women that envy Happy couples try to focus on ur baby but if u didn't see any signs of it really make sure ur doing the right thing. Wish u the best iv been in that situation with my ex and it ended with it all being lies but I had ended it already and was to hard headed to realize I had mad a mistake. Best of luck.
  • VictoriaBVictoriaB
    I had that happen to me. I found out after a couple months, tho. For our entire year and a half relationship after that, I was very jealous and suspicious of him. I caught him looking at a dating website and freaked out at him. He told me he was drunk and didn't remember looking at it, but I knew that was another lie. I ended up leaving him for a man who became my husband and I don't regret leaving my ex at all. The ex knew I wanted a baby and he told me he would force an abortion on me if I did become pregnant. My husband has promised me he will never ever cheat on me. Sometimes it's best to dump his cheating, lying ass. I wish the best for you, love!
  • DaiLynn725DaiLynn725
    Well he admited to most of it... So its definately true... but there are some things that
    i dont believe though. but the bulk of it is that he lied and was living a double life... I hate him and what he has put me through. I was good to him and the fact that i gave all my love and he still felt the need to lie. Im way to good for him anyway.. Maybe now I can finnally move on with my life and leave him where i left him. life goes on and this situation is not going to get the best of me... I refuse.. Thank you ladies for your concern :-((
  • shaina427shaina427
    Forget him...he is not worth ur time...just worry bought taking care of u and baby
  • bettybetty
    Dailynn, somebody will step up and be a better daddy to your princess!! Theres sooo many good guys out there!
    Good Luck friend!!!
  • heatherstarr11heatherstarr11
    Do not give him another chance. A year is a long time to be cheating! He knew fully what he was doing, if it was only once then ok give him a shot, but 97% still will cheat. You don't need a man! Once ur girl is here you will understand that. Nothing compares to the love between ur children and urself :)
  • DaiLynn725DaiLynn725
    Aww... Thank you ladies so much...
  • paganmompaganmom
    First I am so sorry. I know I just found out my bf of four months and newly father informed me he was married and recently moved back in with his wife. I can tell you that I did call his wife only after two weeks went by and all I had to hear was how wonderful his wife was. I feel for you and will keep you in my prayers. Stay strong for the baby you carry. Remember at the end of the day you can tell your baby how much you love him/her and how much of a d*ck his/her dad is. If I could hug you I would. I know how awful you feel. Hang in there love. Remember don't get mad get even. Classy.
  • DaiLynn725DaiLynn725
    @paganmom oh girl.. thats horrible... but im glad you found out.. n so am I... N i would really love to have that hug... Im just tryna stay strong for my child... I hate to say it but I will see his lousy as* in court...lol
  • DawnwaarsBabyDawnwaarsBaby
    Well ladies... I completely understand and I feel for you both. My husband of almost 4 years cheated on me just about our entire relationship, in my house, in our bed, with a lot of people. I initially wanted to repair the marriage, but really that type of deceit and betrayal, never leaves your thoughts. It really made me do some self reflection and counseling. I took him back, but it hasn't been right and I don't trust him, at all. How do u live with someone that's deceived you for so long. Sometimes, its best to let things go... cut your losses and go forward. I am now pregnant by my husband, during the get back phase... but its not about him or me at all... I had to stop it all... and just be about me and my pregnancy... stress free, and relieving my heart of pain... its a process... but when u continue to tell yourself you can do better and really reflect on what was done... it makes it easier... I am worthy of a righteous, honest love... like us all... and until I get it... I won't settle... ill give that honest love to my baby... the best revenge is progress... Do Better!
  • DaiLynn725DaiLynn725
    @DawnwaarsBaby you are so right!
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