It all really depends on how many ppl are allowed in the hopital room for me. I know for sure it will be my mom and my bf/bd in there, also his mom if she wants.
Im having my bf and my bff...my family is extremely dysfunctional and I dont even want them around my baby so definitely dont want any of them there when she's born...
My first it was my mom my husband missed it by 6 hours he was coming back from being out to sea for a month my second just my husband this one its going to be my husband my 10 yr old son my 9 yr old daughter who wants to cut the cord and my aunt
my bf if hes up to the challenge! lol my grandma wants to be in the room but at my last delivery she was at the hospital but not in the room and she drove me nuts....everytime i had a contraction she would get so excited and go on and on about it...i had an epidural so i didnt feel them and after 30 hours of labour it began to bug me a LOT...so i dont know if i want her in my room again...how do i tell her nicely that i cant deal with that added stress without hurting her feelings?
Lol....that's cute, you could let her come into the room and explain to her that its stressing you out when she does it I'm sure she will understand ...good luck
I will have mu bf,mom and my oldest he's 8 and has seen both his brothers born and he is so excited for another one....and no he's not down there for all the action he's up by my head giving me kisses he's such a great kid.
I'm having a c-sec and my RN sister wants to come in desperately! I'm not sure if I want her to. This is my last baby and I don't think my husband would care. She loves her job, tho, and I don't know if she's ever been in with a c-sec before. She's such a weirdo.
Last time only wanted hsbd and doula. Was adamant about it. My mom and I aren't close, his fam all wanted to come but they're very overwhelming people and I couldn't handle it. Having home birth this time, really want my daughter there, hospitals here have no-kids policy. Need someone to take care of her and really can't decide. My mom used to be a doula and would be better birth attendant but his mom will make me crazy. Other hand hsbd and my mom butt heads. His mom is better with my daughter than my mom. Seems like turning into a party. Wanna ask them both to be fair but can't decide. My mom is here but works 24/7, his mom is 2.5 hrs away but retired. LOL so I guess I'm undecided. Any input ladies?
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