am i the only one who doesnt like her kids?

edited April 2011 in Parenting
dont get me wrong, i love those little boogers and would jump in front of a bullet for them...but they are so IRRITATING!! They dont listen for crap and my older one has the common sense of a bleached blonde (no offense to bleached blondes!). My younger ones seems to think life is a game and tries to get out of trouble by cracking joke after joke (hes only 6!). i dont find him funny, tho most ppl say hes hillarious. i just wanna put them in a safe place and get in my car and drive away until i find sanity!! theres gotta be someone who feels the same. or am i a bad mom? :/
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  • I feel like tht some days with my daughter but I love her lol. Sometimes they just are to smart to act up. My daughter does it on purpose and only for me!
  • Nah, not a bad mom. I feel the same way sometimes (ok most of the time) mine are boys, 7 and 5, and a girl, 2. Oldest boy is adhd and a bully know-it-all. 5 yr old sounds like your 6, acts a friggin fool and thinks he's SO cool, everythings a joke to him. And the little one, she's two. Nuff said. Im a stay at home mom, too, and have no car to even think about escaping from them. I don't hate them, but DANG! I could sure use a few days away.
  • I can completely relate.. I have a 6yr old son and he tries the joke thing with me too. It's very frustrating bc I love and care about him so much but damn. I was thinking about summer camp lol Forget those terrible 2's things.. it got bad at 4
  • I asked my dr the other day if I can legally duct tape. My kid too the wall lol she will be two next month and boy she's developing her own lil attitude and independence to go with it I'm 8 weeks pregnant tired and nauseous half the time lets just say I love her more than anything but she's wearin on my nerves!!! Lol
  • Lol glad I'm not the only one. I love the kid but she's so different from me at age 6. I was so strong willed and independent while she is the clingiest child ever. She's all and all a good kid. Quite and does good in school but when it comes to doing normal kid things she acts sooo helpless. We went to the park today. "Go swing Ava." ".....No. Idk how." I know she does....but show her anyways. Soon as I let her go she stops all together and drags her feet and is like Idk what's happening, how do I go up and down?! Then starts crying.
  • Usually I hate other people's kids and they don't like me lmao! My kids and kids friends or close friends love me though. I don't warm up to strangers or other people very easy. Just my personality.... :)
  • Hahahahahahahaha this made my laugh so hard cuz I thought I was the only one! I feel like such a horrible mother. I have a 3yr old boy and gosh I cant stand the little punk lol. Lately his turned into such a cry baby for no reason and he has the most annoyin cry. Im like I love you but shut up!! He never stays still and after 3 yrs wants to act like a newborn waking up every damn night and fighting to go to sleep. I feel like dropping him off at a fire station and running away shame on me lol
  • I go through this on a regular.... my girls are 6 & 3
  • #:-s glad im not the only one

    @megrod88 ava sounds like my jordan. hes 6. i say, "jordan, put your shoes on" "icant" "why not?" "just cant, see??" and i look down and hes only got his toes in cuz the shoes are still tied!! ~X(
  • yesterday, jordan fell and had dirt all over his face and a bloody lip. i say to his brother (mind u, this boy is almost 9!) "kayvon, bring me a washcloth so i can wash this dirt and blood off your brothers face" he brings me a towel and its completely dry. i stare at him and he says "oh, u wanted me to wet it?" "yes, kayvon!" THEN hes goes into the bathroom, comes out and just a tiny corner of it is wet!! ~X(
  • I agree with all of u...i have 2 girls (8and 4)...the oldest has a lot of book sense and no common sense...my youngest talks so frickn loud all the time and i oftn ask her..."can u hear urself"????...they argue ALL DAY...from the time they get out of school til its time 4 bed...its ridiculous.....im glad im not the only 1 going thru this (*exhale*) please let this bby b a boy!!!
  • I'm the same way but I feel bad sometimes because I feel like I'm not being a good mom. I do spank my kids too and sometimes I'm just to lazy to do anything for them so I ask my daughter to help me out. I feel so bad :(
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  • Yea, I dont feel so bad now, I thought I was going crazy ... Im 27weeks prego and I stay at home with my 5 year old 247,,,and man she is testing every lil thing ,,, I call my hubby at least once a week cus I just cant take it,,,, I felt so bad like I was a bad mom, but my daughter is pretty good just all mouth,,grrr she dont get that from me for sure, but I feel alot better knowing im not tge only one
  • My four year old is such a drama queen! She drives me nuts, my two year old is constantly screaming and crying bout something. He stays glued to me! Im also 5 months pregnant... They drive me nuts, I jus wanna run away and leave them with their daddy sometimes!
  • My 11 year old drives me insane right now. I wanna just lock her in her room with a pee cup...a slim Jim and some water.....she's so smart at school but the second she gets home her brain goes dead. I can tolerate my 14 yr old daughter cuz she has learned mommys Preggo hormones might end with someone hurt. Lol
  • Yeah my kids get on my nerves extra these last few months they are boys ages 11,12,&13. they fight constantly and when there not fighting there annoying me by thinking they are in an episode of Jackass or something.
  • I Have a 14 year old girl.... she's always trying to put one over on me. Luckily I remember being that age and am one step ahead of her most of the time lol. She can definitely be a pain sometimes. I think its normal to get frustrated with them.
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  • My sister was like this yesterday with my nieces. They were being so cheeky to the lady in the shop when I went to pick up my pram.
  • I have my days when I dont like mine. I have 2 girls under the age of 4. My oldest doesn't listen, screams and mumbles and kicks. No discipline works. Shes hyperactive and never sits, or naps. So agrevating!
  • I have my moments too. Teen and tween stage has got me crying sometimes. If you ask this ? To our children I'm sure they wld say yes too!
  • Well this is my first...but my mom doesn't like me she tells me all the time lol and I purposely get on her nerves...I'm 21 and sumtimes me n my sisters make a plot to bother her jus to get on her nerves...my younger siblings r 12(twins boy n girl) my brother picks on my sister...they've got us older ones beat lol...n I thnk I won't like son bcuz I dnt like his dad n wenevr his dad cums around he shows off
  • LOL@beauty0710

    That last sentence was highlarious!!
  • @jaime77 I was thinking the same thing. Haha
  • Lol Im serious I cnt stand him
  • Yesterday I wanted to lock my 2 and 4 year old in the closet. Everything I ask them to do they completely ignored until I walked over and either bodily got them moving, took their toys, or yelled at them, and even then it was like pulling teeth. Ugh, I hope today is better. They are cute, and I adore every ounce of them, but I have no patience when I'm prego and I desperately need a break.
  • If it wasnt for daycare, and work, id have lost my mind long ago... Just when I think I cant take anymore, its time to go to work, or take them to school!
  • Oh sweetie this is sumthin I deal with all the time I have 4 children and let me tell u not a day goes by that im not breaking up a fight between my 13 yr old and my 11 yr old boyz or telling my 8 ur old girl to stop crying cause she's such a freakin drama queen... I think the only half decent child I have is my 2 yr old and I chase him around the house all day..lol I love all my children and I too would jump in front of a bullet to protect them.. But I really think they love to drive us crazy, thank goodness for school lol.... I seriously cannot wait till I have this baby girl so I can resume to my normal self.. u know the kinda normal where kids are afraid to mess with thier mama..lol
  • Lol. I'm glad I am not the only one. My 9 yr old grl has an attitude of a 20 yr old but whn it comes to askin her to hlp w something so simple her brain shuts down &strts rolling her eyes. My 7yr old son plays dumb as well but the moment I turn my head he's up to no good pikin on my 3yr old who talks nonstp. She thinks she's Boss of everyone. My husband thinks that she's so cute &gets away w everything. My 9mnth is up all day &night w hardly any all. Can't put her down wout screaming. Can't wait to have #5 so I can keep up. I tell them if u guys kp up the noise I am going to sell you for gas money. Lol but I do love my kids @ the end. X(
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