i feel horrible
Am I the only one who feels or felt this way?
I am so excited to see my new baby but at the same time its hard seeing me with a second kid. Is it cause reality hasn't hit it is it guilt like I'm afraid my first wont feel as important? I hate this feeling and it scares me. Its messing with my head. I hope its not a sign something bad will happen to me or the baby
I am so excited to see my new baby but at the same time its hard seeing me with a second kid. Is it cause reality hasn't hit it is it guilt like I'm afraid my first wont feel as important? I hate this feeling and it scares me. Its messing with my head. I hope its not a sign something bad will happen to me or the baby
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@oregonmama this feeling comes and goes. I think its cause you can love a child more than life itself and can't imagine your heart having as much love again. Lol I guess its baby jitters lol I'm going into something I have never been. Lol at least next time I will be okay.
I have a 4 year old who is super excited to be a big brother and cannot wait for his sissy to get here, but I feel guilty like I am putting him off or something! (even though I am NOT!) I lay with him at night and sometimes I cry because I know that our time alone (just him and I) is drawing to an end and I feel like he is going to feel sad and like he doesn't get the attention he's used to once she's here.
I am going to make as much time for him and I as possible. I know I will do all that I can to include him in everything, I just love him soooo much and it's hard to grasp the concept of loving someone else as much as I love and adore my boy! :-S
I feel the same way omg my son is 2 1/2 nd I'm so happy he is having a sissy nd he kisses nd rubs my belly its so cute but when I lay.with him at night I cry cause he is my bby boy nd I dnt want him feeling left out or pushed over..but do spend as much time as possible with him I do nd now tht I only have 11 days til I have my csection I'm freakin out...my bd said He will be fine but I'm soo scared tht while I'm in the hospital he will feel.left out ugh Idk...I'm so nervous =\
It would be a little uneasy having a toddler with a new born but I'm sure she will adapt well. That's cute how she wants to play right away. Did you get her a special baby of her own that she can take care of while you take care of the baby? I have heard of a lot of people doing that. I think its a great idea.