@nati.... Do what your heart tell you. Like you said, your attached and love this bby. Then keep bby! DONT listen to others, proof them wrong! You can do it! Colleges offer free daycares while your in class. You also can apply for medicaid, foodstamps and WIC my luv... Good Luck... And remember WE ALL make mistakes in life and learn from our mistakes.... Proof them you got this!!
can i be straight up.. do what you want.. you cant garentee your relationships future but you can ensure your childs.. both familys will come around n if they dont then they dont deserve you or your child in thre life.. life is never easy but loving your child is.. and it sounds like you already feel it for your child.. i myself had an abortion.. 18 years old and already a teen parent of 1.. he was only two months old wen i found out i was preg w/ my sec.. i will always wonder about the baby that nevr became.. although it was the right decision at the time.. i will still have to deal w/ the guilt.. and wonder.. im sorry if i affended anyone im just speaking from the heart..
Girl I'm can't say on this but I know a girl who had one because the condom broke and it would have not been right for either person. I know she was not for it either but it was wat was best for them both. She was heartbroken to do it. But in my words I will agree with u all. Do what is right. Don't let money be the one to decide what u do. It's hard right now for me and my fiancee because of money but I'm gonna have my chil ls no matter what. Good luck hun
Hey girl, I'm not in your shoe so I can't tell u what choice to make...but I can say God only gives u what u can handle..its gonna be hard but u have a blessing inside of u..me n my hubby been trying for over 3yrs n now I'm finally prego. U be strong cause once u see that.little face looking up at u that's gonna be the happiest moment of ur life...we.both work n its still hard but by gods grace u will get by...I have a 15yr old son..I was only 18 wen I had him n it was hard even with his dad by myside wen i think.back like I couldn't imagine life without him..also. wanna say to.all the comments I see a lot of strong woman with good advice...good luck ..
Well ikan sayy iwas 16 wen igott pregnant and 17 wen ihad myy fiirst chiild! It wasn't easyy butt she iis the love of myy liife everyythiing yuh thought was great getts better wen yuh kan share iit wiith yur chiild! She sees no wrong iin meh iam super mom iin her eyyes! Iwouldnt take iit backk 4 the world iwiill sayy iits nott easyy all the tiime butt everyythiing alwayys workks out wen yur tryiing! I'm 20 yrs old now and expektiing myy sekond chiild and ikant waiit! :] just keep iin miind also that there iis adoptiion! Good luckk and ill prayy 4 yuh! Keep yur head up!
people are MAJORLY against abortion on this site.. but just do what u think is right i would definatly suggest adoption because your giving someone something they cant get on there own. but people have to understand that if your not gonna take care of yourself throughout your pregnancy because you know its not your baby then abortion may be the best idea.. (not meaning you)
Your story really upsets me pleasedont abort your baby at least give it up for adoption i hope u do the right thing dont let ur so called boyfriend tell u what to do if i had to choose between my bf and my baby it would be my baby good luck!!!
Money will never be ex how you want it! And not every one will approve I had my son when I was 16 my dad dissowned me now he can not go a weekend with out having him for the night! And who ever dosent come around dose not derserve to be around the lil one anyways! You can always make it work! I am doing great now and am 17 weeks preg right now and couldnt be more happy and my son is also very excited! Take responsibility for your actions ( a lil harsh but the truth)
My situATION is opposite yours. My Husband wanted the baby. I DID NOT... Your boyfriend needs to man up. His Mom needs to allow him to make decisions....on his own. I was concerned about finances. But GOD WILL MAKE AWAY. HE DOES NOT PUT ON US MORE THAN WE CAN BEAR.
If you make the decision that you can't take care of the baby financially, give it up for adoption. If you have an abortipn, it can mess you up physically and mentally for life! An aportion has the possibility of making you infertile and it would scar you for life to know that you killed your baby. I don't believe in it but some people do. Do what you know is right for the baby, not what his mom wants you to do! Good luck!
I heat u but God does things for a reason n I know how hard it is am working a part time job n my bd ain't. But we still make it through wit faith in God. I mean I have no money after paying bills that doesn't include food. Good luck n
i wonder why a bunch of pregos would be agianst abortion.. kinda a touchy subject when your prego.. just saying.. i myself am not against it.. but if your in your second trimester.. its kinda late.. for me that is..
When is a better time? There isnt a good time cause once that little heart is there its THERE! ALOT of woman think they have to much pride and will be judge for giving their baby up for adoption and allowing someone else to raise it. That's sad I know its hard for many woman to make a discussion but look into other options before u take the easy way out. I hear so many stories of woman who live with so much regret and what if's?
I personally dont know if u should do the abortion..i was forced into one yr ago and it tore me apart completely n now that my new bf n I planned this child I worry that she may not b safe in my womb or how I would feel if she wad taken away from me. U may go through with the abortion n deal with more negativity than u are now cuz ur preggers..goodluck girlie
Mandielynne.. i also had an abortion, about 8 years ago.. i was 6wks along.. i still feel guilt and wonder.. what if.. mine wasnt force but presured i was 18 and already had a 2month old.. i vowed i would never do it again.. and i do believe theres no good time but its better if you get it done early before 12wks
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Your boyfriend needs to man up. His Mom needs to allow him to make decisions....on his own. I was concerned about finances. But GOD WILL MAKE AWAY. HE DOES NOT PUT ON US MORE THAN WE CAN BEAR.