@rissalee7 I didn't think you were judging at all just being upfront cause life sucked for a while lol, my hubby (bread winner) lost his job of 10years a week after I got pregnant luckly he was a regional manager and a lot of places had openings and there weren't many people with his experience lol so he was able to find a better paying job closer to home so it was actually a blessing in disguise! I always wanted my kids 4 years apart and they are gonna be 4 days short of being exactly that! Good luck with everything and just remember everything happens for a reason!
The best thing you can do for yourself and your future kids it to wait until you are educated out of school and stable money and relationship wise! Why try so young? Im 24 and this is an UH OH baby and its been hard enough being 24 I cant imagine being 17 !!
We tried for over 5 years. Finally for about a month I took prenantal vitamins, frolic acid and vitamin d every day. We had sex every other day. I would lay with hips elevated for about a half hour. I kept track of ovulation with the My Days app on my phone. I got pregnant missionary style. We were relaxed and we enjoyed ourselves. Not sure what did the trick after all that time, but definitely worth a shot! Good luck! Think positive!
You can have fun if you have a baby @ 18 my bestfriend had a baby at 18. She partied with us not every time but at least 2x of the month. Her & her bd lived together so he watched their daughter whenever she needed "me" time. She also was enrolled in college online & worked. Her bd did the same, I'm not promoting teen Moms even though I am one but YES we still enjoy life.
Wow, y'all was nice til you found out my age and im sorry I fucking made discussions I was looking for support, but ya. Ha rude much fuck all y'all! try to think about peoples feelings
@ allid: Girl look people going to voice there opinions on your discussion espescially good ones or bad one because your asking for it so just take the advice do what you want with it because at the end of the day the only person you going to listen to is yourself. So if you can't handle the advice people giving you don't put up discussions.
@ allid yes I did see your other discussion but like I said there just voicing there opinion on what they have been through at your age n giving advice so no matter what like I said before your going to do what you want no matter what any one is saying. So remember its just advice don't take it so personal.
I didn't get a chance to read others ideas...but get into a good, healthy workout plan and eat better/healthier! I was overweight for years. Then I decided to go to the gym. I dropped 100lbs and my cycle was perfect and I got preggo
Also..if your hubby or bf smoked weed..ask him to stop for a while. Weed lowers sperm count!
Ug! I do not understand why anyone should be telling this person about much more than what she's asking! Who are any of us to pass judgements? If you don't have something nice to say then say nothing at all. Fundamental grade school teachings. Her reasons be her own and her choice again if she chooses to share w the rest of us.
Depending on how long you've been trying, you may want to consider a fertility doc. But from what I'm reading most of it is dead on. And yes, orgasms help... its scientifically proven. Also, foreplay helps your body's inner self build a heightened awareness for sperm. Kinda like a heads up its coming. Relax because there is such a thing as trying to hard.
I think a dr. Told me once when I was ttc that saliva can kill sperm. (I may have dreamt that lol). But I think he said to avoid oral sex. But none of that mattered anyway. I would stand on my head for at least 20 mins after sex and never got preggy until we got discouraged and gave up then month later. SURPRISE!. Good luck girl. Iread your other thread and why you want to have a baby now. I am in finishing up my degree (I'm 25 better late than never) I am nervous about taking college classes and caring for a baby although they are online classes. But I am sure it can be done with hubbys support. Do what feels right for the two of you.
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I got pregnant missionary style. We were relaxed and we enjoyed ourselves.
Not sure what did the trick after all that time, but definitely worth a shot! Good luck! Think positive!
Also..if your hubby or bf smoked weed..ask him to stop for a while. Weed lowers sperm count!
Depending on how long you've been trying, you may want to consider a fertility doc. But from what I'm reading most of it is dead on. And yes, orgasms help... its scientifically proven. Also, foreplay helps your body's inner self build a heightened awareness for sperm. Kinda like a heads up its coming. Relax because there is such a thing as trying to hard.
Good luck and God bless,
Meghan
Do what feels right for the two of you.