no heartbeat

theswift4theswift4
edited May 2011 in Pregnant
I went to the er today bcuz I was spotting they did an ultrasound & could not find a heartbeat. So they said I am in the process of having a miscarriage. I go to the Dr tomorrow. But they pretty much told me I just have to wait to pass the baby or possibly get a d&c. I feel so numb.

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  • MommyofAngelsMommyofAngels
    Oh hun, I am so sorry for your loss. I had my second miscrraige in Febuary, I know how your feeling and I am here to talk if you need too. *hugs*
  • catbencatben
    Im so sorry. I had two miscarriages last year and they are so hard to go thru. You are in my thoughts.
  • vette_devilvette_devil
    I am so sorry. My heart is with you. <3
  • huneybeehuneybee
    edited May 2011
    I'm really sorry :(
  • Jaime77Jaime77
    i'm very sorry for your mc, my thoughts are with you during this difficult time.
  • Yeseniadiaz59Yeseniadiaz59
    Prayers going ur way. Im so sorry for ur loss.
  • theswift4theswift4
    @hunnybee that's what I keep thinking but I'm pretty sure its not cuz there is more blood.
  • theswift4theswift4
    Thank u all so much. I'm not sure it has really sunk in yet. I found out 3 hrs ago. I wanted this baby so bad.
  • momofSOONtobe7momofSOONtobe7
    Im so sorry hun. My heart goes out to you! Had the same thing happen to me too. Went in for my 14 week ultrasound and low and behold no heart beat. I was tore up badly. It is so hard. Grieving is the best thing and dont let anyone tell you that you shouldnt. This is very hard to go through this. I had one in March and it was my first ever. I had a d&c though bc I couldn't stand seeing anything. My heart goes out to you and your family. Your in my thoughts. If you need someone to chat with im here for ya.
  • rockinmommarockinmomma
    Im so sorry hun!! Thoughts and prayers are with you and your family! >:D<
  • theswift4theswift4
    I will update what the Dr says tomorrow but then I will probably b leaving pregly. At least for a while.
  • momof22bemomof22be
    I'm so sorry for your loss sweetheart
  • boofacebooface
    :( I'm sorry hun. I'll keep hoping for better news. Stay strong.
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  • momofSOONtobe7momofSOONtobe7
    edited May 2011
    Awe... Im sorry don't leave.... I am not pregnant and I've stayed. You can give advise and talk. I comment and give advise still. I ask for advise still too. I just put my stuff under ttc now. I think pregly needs to make a discussion for parents who have lost children or went through a miscarriage bc to me talking about it helps and getting advise from other people who have went though what your going through helps also. You decision though. Hope for the best for you hun.
  • LovelyBootsLovelyBoots
    Sorry that you are going through this you have support if you need it here.
  • tinka1326tinka1326
    im so sorry for what your going through. i lost a baby in december and fell pregnant again before my next period came. it helped me get past the worst of the greiving. i also kept a diary and wrote down all the things i was thinking it helped alot to get it out but not always have to actually talk to another person
  • 3rdOnTheWay3rdOnTheWay
    I am so sorry and you will be in my thoughts and prayers. I went through the same thing in 2003. I let the baby pass naturally. I was six weeks along. It is an emotional thing to go through but u will make it through I promise.
  • BBY_GIRL_ON_DA_WAYBBY_GIRL_ON_DA_WAY
    I'm so sorry to hear that, I also went thru a miscarriage back in 2009 I found out because I began to spot dr checked and no heartbeat I was early on not even 12 weeks I,refused a dnc because its associated with abortion and passed it naturally it was so painfull...i still think of the little angel that I lost but you'll be in my prayers!

  • islandgirlislandgirl
    Im sorry to hear that. Ur in my prayers. God bless u and urs.
  • TishJ330TishJ330
    I am so sorry for your loss. Please allow us to support you & don't leave Pregly. I'll continue to send you prayers & positive thoughts. May God comfort and bless you and your family.
  • [Deleted User][Deleted User]
    :( I'm so srry to hear this.
  • theswift4theswift4
    @everyone thank ya'll very much I have to wait to go to the Dr. till tomorrow. I was not very happy about it. Cuz the Dr @ er said Dr Jessup said to call his office in the morning he wants to c u tomorrow. So my hubby took off work so he could go with me. Well I called this morning & she said Dr Jessup wasn't even in today so I have to make an apt for tomorrow. I told her I couldn't bcuz my hubby has to work & the person who was going to tale me to my 1st ultrasound (which would have been tomorrow) I could not handle being around cuz she always has to ask a million ?'s & she tends to not say the right things & she says hurtful things without meaning to. So I just cannot handle it. So she set up the apt tomorrow for 4:30pm which is the latest apt they have. I told her we would try cuz my hubby works 4 am to 4 pm & my Dr is an hr away from where we live he said he would try. But my hubby still had to miss a full day of work that's $187 we lost.
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