what the fuck!!! Seriously??? **update**
my freaking husband might be hiding something from me and i can't figure it out!!! it is deeply disturbing me... we talked on the phone then like an hour later i get a text from him "No not now" what the heck does that mean!! he was suppose to be sleeping then when i called him he was like what what happen like he was trying to fake that he was sleeping!!! what the heck!! he just told me something that just made me doubt him a whole lot and now this! he changed all his password to everything and i can't log in to nothing of his. i don't want to assume anything but what the heck! this has become sooo suspicious again!! if he really is cheating then i don't know what to do. After all i done for him and he does this to me! what the heck! sorry but that is what i could only really say now because my mind is thinking sooo much about everything that i a sooo lost and confused! i don't want to jump to any conclusions but damn! i don't want to get messed over twice! ladies i need some advice to talk to him, i tried all the talking but it is not working... i need some help!
Update--- so u couldn't wait till the morning day light... I called him and we discussed EVERYTHING in detail and finally I got to him. He have me his pw and I told him, we need to stabilize out marriage if you want us (baby & me). He said he is sorry, its just thst he feels that I give him a lot of pressure with the whole assuming thingy and the very nosy, curious attitude that I have been doing. I told him, because you started to act strange and I need to know what you are doing. Ladies don't get me wrong, I trust my man and I don't snoop around his stuff unless it is very neccassry but other then that, I could careless. He promised me that when he comes back he will make everything up for me, so lets hope. I feel better now and less worried. I did check his stuff and if course nothing. I asked ginn about lastnight and he said that ge text me earlier and that was a late text, it got to me late so yeap no worries now. Thanks ladies so much for your kind words and everything. I always have the support if my pregly friends. @paganmom & @blissmarie23 & @mommabee13. Yoh guys helped out so much!
Update--- so u couldn't wait till the morning day light... I called him and we discussed EVERYTHING in detail and finally I got to him. He have me his pw and I told him, we need to stabilize out marriage if you want us (baby & me). He said he is sorry, its just thst he feels that I give him a lot of pressure with the whole assuming thingy and the very nosy, curious attitude that I have been doing. I told him, because you started to act strange and I need to know what you are doing. Ladies don't get me wrong, I trust my man and I don't snoop around his stuff unless it is very neccassry but other then that, I could careless. He promised me that when he comes back he will make everything up for me, so lets hope. I feel better now and less worried. I did check his stuff and if course nothing. I asked ginn about lastnight and he said that ge text me earlier and that was a late text, it got to me late so yeap no worries now. Thanks ladies so much for your kind words and everything. I always have the support if my pregly friends. @paganmom & @blissmarie23 & @mommabee13. Yoh guys helped out so much!
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Also, confront him, in a calm way, about everything you just said on here
@mommabee13 ok so here it goes... he is in the army, he went to korea for a year up there and when he was up there he cheated on me but i didn't know it. We weren't doing so well at that time and he did what he did and he knew it was wrong, i on the other hand, stayed and was a very very good wife to him. Through out that whole year he was up there, i kept asking him what was he doing cause he goes on for weeks without calling me, SO when he came back down i finally asked him and he told me more lies which i knew he did, he of course came out with the truth so i forgave him but i never forget so that is why the trust issues are still on thin ice because it just never went away and this was like 2 yrs ago. So he tells me these stories how he acted up their and i of course believed him then just like 2 hours ago he told me they were all lies!!! so i am in such doubt and such fear cause i don't know the man i married, now i get this weird text and he is acting all dumb about saying i am just getting more annoying with this! hello idiot! you lied to me countless times but i forgave your dumb butt and stayed with you and now suspicious again... i just hate the word cheating...