@praying4our3rd You have taken all of my comments... When I first read this (before anyone responded) my first thought was: you're not going to have many friends... And I immediately left the post. Then I noticed people had comment; and I came back to witness the inevitable train wreck (knew it'd be bad but couldn't look away)... My next thought was: I should tag one of the moderators (something, I've never done); but you beat me to it. :-bd
And BTW, let me tell my 23 year old husband who had a hard time getting me pregnant because his leukemia radiation and chemotherapy was so bad, that he should have just stopped trying. U should stop before u dig Ur hole deeper
Im not bashing ANYONE. But I will tell you that this IS a forum and does not ONLY include SUPPORT. But questions, learning, and opinions. So as for me not posting this because its not "supportive" oh well?
Anyways being rude was not my intention. I just believe that if you didnt stress the situation as many do when they ttc, they would have better results.
There are women on here who arent 'just having sex' as you say if you read some of the post you will notice there are some women or their husbands taking treatment. There was no reason for this post. Maybe if you were in these womens shoes you would understand. For us that are pregnant we fully support the women ttc even if they are 'just having sex' who are you to judge any of them and dont say your not because you are. That was the most hurtful post i've read on here, and i'm not even ttc. Im sorry that all you ladies ttc have to see this. Baby dust to you all and i wish you the best of luck. I agree with? @ praying4our3rd this post needs to be shut down.
@bumpy2011 maybe you should work on the way you phrase your sentences because some women get offended way to easy around here weither it be the pregnancy hormones from those who are pregnannt or the angst from the women who wish they were pregnant
@romeike89 I get why you may have to try in that kind of situation and I THANK YOU for bringing that into light, because no else has. I understand why ttc for you would be necessary and stressful.
Would just like to say that this proves my point of more moderators, possibly one in the uk. Also all ttc ignore, you don't need to justify yourselfs and your methods to this clearly clueless and ignorant person. @mama_kat@Martin@mrsdelrae
When you want to get pregnant with the person you love you don't foresee you having trouble or having mc. If you have never been there then you have no reason to judge us that have been ttc.
@mummytube Shes TTC and Im not going to knock her age because it may very well be a good time for her to be pregnant. And theres soooo many situations in which a woman has 1% chance yet STILL DOES. But in my eyes I believe that with that 1% adding stress of TTC would only lessen the chances.
@angelsmommy I read that post and answered to it. Im not judging nor bashing Im stating an opinion and questioning reason. Ive seen countless amounts of women with ttc post almost more than anything else on the forum and felt the need to state an opinon. Wrong?? why??
@bumby2011 thank u for realizing that some situations are different. But whether its cancer or a weird ovalation, everyone deserves to be a parent. And I think we all nerd supported in that choice. I'm blessed to be pregnant, and I understand how every person ttc feels, and Its heartbreaking. So I don't blame them for trying everything possible to mend their heart.
@praying4our3rd I didn't say what she did was acceptable, I was just pointing out that she didnt call anyone ignorant. And I think she needed to reword her post, but didnt need jumped on. and a lot of women support each other thru whatever on this site. But there is some subjects people are touchy about. An opinion is still an opinion. I wish baby dust to all ttc ladies. I have a cousin that finally had her first baby after 7 m/c tons of fertility treatments and shes 45. I'm not dismissing anything, just that some comments towards her were even more insensitive then what she first wrote
BTW Im not telling anyone... how to FEEL about ttc. Im saying that in her situation i see where trying to have a baby would be difficult. But for the most part MOST of these women TTC dont have these issues with the bd on the forum posts. They are just TTC and driving themselves insane. And thats where my opinon comes to play.
you know what @praying4our3rd sometimes it is completely annoying to see a thousand posts on what the sex of the baby is, or how to induce labor. I find that too many of you women on here don't read enough and expect perfect strangers to give you medical advice. while i support women who are trying to conceive and all that jazz if you are so easily offended about what she wrote then leave the post and stop reading it plain and simple. if you keep reading and posting then yeah things are going to keep going and going and not getting any better. I honestly don't think she meant for it to offend you or any of the other women who are trying to conceive. Yeah she doesn't know your situation and no she may not have had to try as long as you have or had to have dealt with as much BS that you guys have to deal with, but she just like everyone else in this forum deserves to be able to state her opinion whether or not you agree or think she is unreasonable. I think all these religious posts are unnecessary as well as some other dumb childish topics that you women are constantly arguing about but you don't see me flying off the handle and saying you are wrong so calm down and leave her alone. if you don't like what is written how about you move on and find or make a better more distracting topic of conversation
Im not trying to defend or put anyone down but all of you should think about what you post before you post it in any conversation.
People here are now just being plain rude. This is her opinion and she never said it in any hateful way. You guys are outta ya trees flippin out about this.. dammn. Drama drama drama. Annoying much?
A lot of women can't just have sex and get pregnant they have to go to specialist and get tests ran because for some reason their bodies can't do it on its own if they want to let getting pregnant consume their lives then that is there right its really heartbreaking to try for months and years and nothing happens then u go to a doc and find out u can't or the only way u can is if u get this procedure done I know if I had to do it I would
I COMPLETELY AGREE. I would LOVE for @mamakat@mrsdelrae and @martin to close this post, because obviously many women on the forum can not have a mature conversation and a little close minded. Theres no need for more than half of these comments. I dont understand why people can not voice their opinions without others acting out because of it. Its a FORUM suck it up.
As a matter of fact because no moderators are on duty lets just make everyones lives a little happier today and just stop commenting!
What the heck does it matter to you what they write or about their post?? Whatever this is stupid and everybody who agrees with it is too. So everybody have a lovely day and women ttc ignore this uneducated brat.
There is no better or more important time in our lives to give something our all than with our children. I have been blessed with two normal & healthy pregnancies & cannot even imagine what it would feel like to have difficulty conceiving or miscarry. The women I know here on Pregly ttc are beautiful, strong women who deserve the most beautiful healthy babies in the world. How dare you say it's "just sex". Unbelievable. It is anything but, and I applaud the women on here for responsibly ttc when the time is right for them & they are ready to care for a baby.
Bless all of you close minded women who jump conclusions and are in fact so judgemental over a stated opinion. No need to state names because its OBVIOUS. I find the name calling funny a bit amusing.
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When I first read this (before anyone responded) my first thought was: you're not going to have many friends... And I immediately left the post. Then I noticed people had comment; and I came back to witness the inevitable train wreck (knew it'd be bad but couldn't look away)... My next thought was: I should tag one of the moderators (something, I've never done); but you beat me to it. :-bd
Anyways being rude was not my intention. I just believe that if you didnt stress the situation as many do when they ttc, they would have better results.
@bumpy2011 maybe you should work on the way you phrase your sentences because some women get offended way to easy around here weither it be the pregnancy hormones from those who are pregnannt or the angst from the women who wish they were pregnant
@angelsmommy I read that post and answered to it. Im not judging nor bashing Im stating an opinion and questioning reason. Ive seen countless amounts of women with ttc post almost more than anything else on the forum and felt the need to state an opinon. Wrong?? why??
Im not trying to defend or put anyone down but all of you should think about what you post before you post it in any conversation.
As a matter of fact because no moderators are on duty lets just make everyones lives a little happier today and just stop commenting!
Have a nice day ladies!
May you all have happy healthy babies. %%-