That sounds like a terrible idea! All you will be doing is looking for validation of your insecurity. It will become a habit and you will be even more suspicious. Say you don't find something, will you continue snooping til you do? Its just setting you up for failure. Why are you suspicious of him? If you can't trust him, why be with him?
@lilpeapod913 if i find nothing then im happy. I would stop. I already caught him and giving him another chance. I just want to know if hes still lying and going behind my back.
Go sms pro will send text messages to an email. But it can change the way he sends texts I think. Said something like that in the description. There was another one too I saw but cant remember. Dont drive yourself crazy. If you suspect it normally is. You'll drive yourself mental worrying and checking.
I have always believed that for the most part "ignorance is bliss". If he makes you happy then focus on the good
Ugh I was just thinking about this earlier. I wish I knew so I could see what my husband is up to! He's always texting people and claims its his dad, tyler or someone about a craigslist ad.
@leggs2011 yea my bf normally tells me who hes textin but whrn he textin someone else he doesnt say a thing.
Maybe he learned his lesson. Maybe im over reacting. Maybe im jealous of his past cause hes good looking and have had more relationships then me and scarred he will want to be the lady magnet again.
I had a keylogger on the computer so I got his password that way. He tells me who he's textin but I don't believe him. I keep dreaming that he leaves me
If you have to go that far then obviously you have a bigger issue at hand. If you can't trust him there is no point in a relationship. That's just my opinion..good luck and I hope you find what you're looking for..
I hacked his facebook but he deleted the message i saw. I dont think he'll betray me ever again. I kinda feel he'll be my bf forever. I kinda feel like a bad person for being sneaky but he does see whoever im talkin to i got nothing to hide.
I was n the same situation as u... I had trust issues with my bd always caught him talking to girls.. so I had his # changed n we both had deleted our Facebook cuz he had nothing but girls.. everything was goibg good till I started noticing him leaving him fone anywer(but not around me) letting the battery die.. n well his fone is on my account.. so I went threw his gmail n saw all these girls he was still talking to from fb.. wen u say u wana see something like ur bf txt messages at the end ur gna wish u hadn't just cuz it hurts a lot if u see something u dnr want too.. om not saying u dnt wana kno wats going on n look stupid.. idk if u understand wat I'm trying to say??... but right now at this point we ain't together hurts a lot.. but if he can't change n he can't seem to gain my trust it well never wrk..
I hate when ppl say oh you don't trust him why you with him.
1. He's ur kids dad. 2. Ur married(well I am) 3. YOU love him, ur just not sure if he's truly in love or being truthful so you want to find out b4 you leave him.
Just b.c. u don't trust him @lalalorree doesn't mean you have to leave him b.c. ppl say so. It just means you need to talk to him. If he tries to win ur trust back good. If he doesn't then maybe you should think deeply about moving on.
@Leggs2011...I totally agree with what u said, its true that a healthy relationship can't be maintained when there's no trust but when you love them and they're your kids dad you'll try whatever you can to make it work...
@lalalorre I know hat you're going thru kuz what you're describing in your posts is my bd we've been on and off for this reason...but man if u find an app most def. Let me know cuz I wonder the same thing...he takes my phone whenever but I'm not even allowed to touch his and he won't let me no matter what...it sux to have the doubt in te back of your head as to why and what the heck he's up to that u don't know about!
Don't search unless you are really ready if something pops out the wood works trust me I am going to it now because I checked the bill & heard a secretive conversation.... Now I know who the person is she actually leaves up stairs doesn't care about our 3 children on the way & expects me to kill this baby girl I am carrying now so they can be together & he can take care of her daughter. Two weeks of knowing her & he leaving my behind. so take it from me dont look it maybe nothing but you dont want my situation of looking opening a can of worms hope this is helpful
oOo! apps like that exsist!? after my hubs epic fail last week sign me up! id love to bust his ass again! even though i hope he never does do it again... damn it im so weak... :O
also i did trust my husband we had the "perfect" marriage until he messed up last week. he didnt cheat but he did ask a girl to have relations with him. says he lernt his lesson and wont do it again. i did trust him but now i dont and we r working on gaining it back with marriage consuling and all that good junk. but i would like to spy, i mean just for a few weeks to b sure he is trying. i know its wrong but it would help me sleep at night
Don't know any apps sorry but for some phones there's a program where its backed up by or connected with the computer somehow. I can ask my sil, her friends hubbys phone was done that way and all the texts and photos went automatically to their computer. Which is how she found out about girls(including an ex) he was not only talking to but meeting with on his R&R when she gave birth to their son! I agree with some of the others. Unless you're prepared to find out the worst and deal with it, let it go for now
I want to find a gps tracker for my husband, he always goes out for hours and dosnt let me know where he is, I know he isnt cheating and is at a mates house, but there are some friends of his I dont want him hanging out with due to there drug takeing and my husbands unablity to say no to drugs.
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I haven't a clue but I do know if you share same carrier and cell bill u can see whom he texts by #...
I have always believed that for the most part "ignorance is bliss". If he makes you happy then focus on the good
Hmph..
Maybe he learned his lesson. Maybe im over reacting. Maybe im jealous of his past cause hes good looking and have had more relationships then me and scarred he will want to be the lady magnet again.
1. He's ur kids dad.
2. Ur married(well I am)
3. YOU love him, ur just not sure if he's truly in love or being truthful so you want to find out b4 you leave him.
Just b.c. u don't trust him @lalalorree doesn't mean you have to leave him b.c. ppl say so. It just means you need to talk to him. If he tries to win ur trust back good. If he doesn't then maybe you should think deeply about moving on.
@lalalorre I know hat you're going thru kuz what you're describing in your posts is my bd we've been on and off for this reason...but man if u find an app most def. Let me know cuz I wonder the same thing...he takes my phone whenever but I'm not even allowed to touch his and he won't let me no matter what...it sux to have the doubt in te back of your head as to why and what the heck he's up to that u don't know about!
I agree with some of the others. Unless you're prepared to find out the worst and deal with it, let it go for now