Um no I am not really in the mood for sex and if it stops him crazing me then its not doing any harm. Also I don't get jelouse of porn as he is with me its just pictures.
@tammy...i thought I wouldn't care either. And admittedly sex is the farthest thing on my mind.
But I can barely look him in the eye. Of course, he apologized and it's gone ( for now) but I cannot tell you the amount time he spends on that phone...telling me it was it was his gang wars game
My fiancee has been doin it siince we got 2gether . I used to do it to, so to me its normal. Its kinda weird dat he watches it on his phone, dont get me wrong. But I cant do nething.. Lol
Just be grateful that he apologised and is taking your feelings to heart. Try to remember that he is with you he loves you men think of sex a lot more than some women and porn is an outlet that means they are looking and getting rid of some of that hornyness and not going elsewhere because they really just want the woman there with.
My boyfriend does it...I'm not giving it to him like I used to, I can't blame him...I agree, I think most men do it. I make little jokes about it here n there.
If he were keeping it a secret from me I would be extremely hurt, but if he were to put one in the dvd player while we were in bed together it would be different. Not to mention sometimes it gets me in the mood. You could try watching with him and see if it does anything for you.
I would be much more upset that he lied about what he was doing... my husband used to be a little "too" into porn & it almost ruined our marriage... but it was the lying that did it... but he's much better about it now, although he'll always like it. Sure killed it for me, though =/
I think its very disrespectful for any husband to do. Whether his wife is pregnant or not. Instead of watching the porn, he should spend that time with his wife if he's in that kind of mood.. not looking at someone else. I'd probably be more upset than mad.. I wouldn't even know how to act towards him really.. especially while being pregnant, shew!
my husband and i watch it together sometimes....its kinda like a funny bonding moment. we laugh at different parts of it and it also gets us in the mood to enjoy each other.
I agree with @coolbabybeans my husband and I are very open so if he did that behind my back I was be pissed! My husband would just ask me if I want to watch one with him so I would be mad if he did it behind my back, like trying to hide it from me.
I watch porn on my phone so does my bf if im feeling big as a house it bothers me but if not I dont care .... Im 30wks tom so im pretty big right now .. The thing that really bothers me is he has female friend that he talks to everyday & he goes out every weekend on top of it
I understand girl.. & he's human, but so are you.. so what makes two people on a screen so much better!? Before my husband and I were married I was doing some homework at his house & I was using his brothers computer.. well this porn things popped up & my husband was sitting with me.. I clicked on it and we laughed about it & made fun of it bc of the things they were doing.. and that's a bit different than just him watching it & letting you find out on your own. You have every right to be upset!
My husband and I watch together some times cause it does help thabkfully hes not so much into it unless he is actually looking got something for both of us but I would rather that 2 him sleepinh with someone else then potentially bringing me home asn.std
Im with mommy3... I let my husband know very early in our relationship that I was not ok with it.I tried and it didn't not work for me.he knows if he wants to be with me its me n only me.for me its all about respect.u have to sit down wit him n tell him how it makes u feel and if he's hard headed like my hubby go wit wht daniw6976 said,lol.good luck 2girls1boy.
I'm with a lot of women on here, I could care less if my husband watched porn, he's home, with me so why would it bother me? Now if it was like 24 hours a day affecting his mood and how he treated me then yes, but I like porn also so I don't care. I'd soooo much rather he'd look at women he could never touch then go and and find some to look at. It's not cheating and it has never made me feel unattractive, he married me for a reason but if it really bothers you I guess that would be an issue that you have to take up with that person.
Hell I would prolly b the one talking bout lets watch one,i think its funny,i dont get off on it. I just think like ooh yea thats a good move, we have to try that one lmao. N to me watching porn cuz u a freak, and sneaking n wackin off to it is different. I have no clue what I would do if I caught him in the act. Buss out laughin or what
@nenamel29 I would probably laugh too, but since I enjoy my "alone time" I couldn't get too mad, after all men are visual lol He doesn't hide it from me though, he has no issues telling me about something he seen or laughed at in some porn he watched. It might be different if he was lying but I'm not in the mood much right now so it's one less stress on me haha
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But I can barely look him in the eye. Of course, he apologized and it's gone ( for now) but I cannot tell you the amount time he spends on that phone...telling me it was it was his gang wars game
I really dont know what to do or say...funny thing though, I haven't seen that damn phone all afternoon!