im tearing us apart! :( long
I often feel like my bf would rather be out w his buddies playing golf or fishing than home playing house w me. The problem is, I bring it up at the worst times. Fri we went to a wedding for his friend (mined you he refuses to go to weddings w me cuz "weddings suck") then saturday he slept til 2, I worked then we ran errands and went to his friends bday party. Sat night he didn't sleep, left to go up north at 345am came home at 2 and slept til 915pm. During that time I made dinner And all sorts of food for him for the week. Then at 930 he left for work. Came home, woke me up to put an icyhot on his back and went to bed. I left for work. He had plans to go bday shopping for his daughter with his sister (which I thought we could all do together, but they haven't done brother/sister stuff in God knows how long so me tagging along was out of the question). So I made plans to get a massage last night. While im on my way there he texts asking if I care if he goes golfing tonight. So in my head that's Sunday, Monday, And Tuesday of having very little communication cuz we didn't hardly talk at all during Sunday and Monday and I probably would talk to him today because he would be sleeping then golfing. So I got upset. I came home 10 min before he had to leave for work and he made me tell him what was wrong even tho I kept saying I didn't want to talk about it right then and after I told him, he stormed off.. then we texted til 1am about how He feels he is doing all he can And Its not enough and then towards the end he just disregarded what I was saying and just kept saying "luv u too" in other words "shut up, im done w this conversation" but I'm going on 4-5 hours of restless sleep and now he's home sleeping.. have me an aggravated kiss and went to bed. I originally told him I feel lonely a lot..he equated that to he's not around enough but what it is is that I feel like he is always making plans w other ppl and never w me. We are always doing what he wants to do and never what I want. I have no friends around here. The only argument we ever get into is how much time we spend together abdominal He claimed last night he spends more time w me than he has w any girl prior. What do I do? Just start accepting this? He kept saying "we spent the entire weekend together!" But What I'm seeing is we spent parts of fri And Saturday together And then nothing til Wed or Thursday. We r going out of town w his family this weekend but even there we don't do a whole lot together. Im just really really bored. We used to run And workout together and that's all gone right now And he doesn't seem to understand why I'm upset!
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As for giving him a taste of his own medicine, I did that last night and he threw it in my face like "I was the one here without you tonight and I wasn't giving you shit about it!" Woah one night, big deal..And he had plans And I didn't know when he'd be home, nor did I ask. Ughhh please tell me we will get over this hurdle, I feel like we are so loving towards each other but just him saying those things about feeling like he's not enough for me just has me stuck and feeling like an ass. @mylittleman2011
i would sit down and have a serious talk with him and try go on dates once a week to rekindle that flame. Hope things work out.