I'm sorry your man is being a ass you don't deserve to be treated like that...... I would stop doing for him just all together until he can learn to appreciate you
And come on you guys she already being treated like shit by her man and came to pregly for advice and all you can pin punt is her way of saying Mexican wow and for people to sit her and say that she should basically watch how she words what she says if she wants support is just wrong so u are basically saying "you said beaner so you aren't going to get our support and we are going to degrade you for saying it" so seeing how everyone can sit here and degrade her for what she is used to saying I am just going to assume you have never said anything out of context..... And if you have than you should really practice what you preach for you to sit her and judge someone on what they used to is wrong let me take that back not judge but scold
@gatorbob.. I was thinking the same thing! But I don't have the Desire to scroll up on my phone to see how to spell her sn, so I chose to leave it alone... lol.. so, care for a canole and an italian cream soda?
@vayanna nobody degraded her or made light of her problem. The issue arose with her word usage and on a public forum with thousands of strangers from different parts of the world yes you do have to be watchful of how you use your words.
@addi3886... actually, the smaller the school, the better they are, imo... more one on one... personal. And I wish I had help with my kids.. lol. My parents are too far and my husbands mom is a nutcase, lol
I personally have never heard of the term "beaner", but I gather it must be a racial slur. Oh well..get over it already! You can give your advice and ask her to edit her post(as someone did), if she didn't edit it then don't comment. Why continue the issue??? People say they are done commenting, then keep coming back with more comments. This is not meant to piss anyone off...I just don't get it!!
I hope you get things figured out with your fella.
WOW i come back on to this frikin mess!! But anyway im gonna clarify for all you... 1..the words beaner,cracker,nigg*..or watever ARE racial BUT only when u go around talking about a race u are NOT..blk ppl go around "hey nigg*" to other blk ppl n thats ok but if a white person or watever says it all hell breaks loose... Im 100% mexican and so is my husband. I have THE RIGHT to call my own ppl a beaner or a wetback or watever cuz its MY RACE!! 2. and more importantly..i called NOBODY but my HUBBY a beaner. So if i woulda said hes an asshole wat all of u would be offended just cuz i called HIM a word?
This is dumb. I have the right to call my husband a beaner for 2 reasons..hhes my damn husband n cuz hes frikin mexican!
@oregonmama im pretty sure ur not a mod n if mama kat has an issue with this she can tell me. And if i remember correctly...there was a "friendly" post about racial stereotypes that had hundreds of comments about oh blk ppl smell..white ppl cant take care of their kids..mexicans have 10 kids..or watever. Im pretty sure if that thread is ok then my small 1 word post is fine. Thanks n bye!
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And come on you guys she already being treated like shit by her man and came to pregly for advice and all you can pin punt is her way of saying Mexican wow and for people to sit her and say that she should basically watch how she words what she says if she wants support is just wrong so u are basically saying "you said beaner so you aren't going to get our support and we are going to degrade you for saying it" so seeing how everyone can sit here and degrade her for what she is used to saying I am just going to assume you have never said anything out of context..... And if you have than you should really practice what you preach for you to sit her and judge someone on what they used to is wrong let me take that back not judge but scold
I hope you get things figured out with your fella.
1..the words beaner,cracker,nigg*..or watever ARE racial BUT only when u go around talking about a race u are NOT..blk ppl go around "hey nigg*" to other blk ppl n thats ok but if a white person or watever says it all hell breaks loose...
Im 100% mexican and so is my husband. I have THE RIGHT to call my own ppl a beaner or a wetback or watever cuz its MY RACE!!
2. and more importantly..i called NOBODY but my HUBBY a beaner. So if i woulda said hes an asshole wat all of u would be offended just cuz i called HIM a word?
This is dumb. I have the right to call my husband a beaner for 2 reasons..hhes my damn husband n cuz hes frikin mexican!
Thanks n bye!