GGGRRRRR!!!!! MIL ISSUE W/ BABYSHOWER!
i once posted a topic here asking which day was better for a baby shower, Saturday or Sunday...mostly everbody said Saturday & i agreed...i had chosen August 27 for my babyshower, which is a Saturday...im not gonna be able 2 do it on that day cause my brother went ahead and chose that date...only because i hadnt told anybody i wanted that date cause i hadnt picked put a spot yet...so i cant do it on the 27th anymore...so i was planning now on doing it 1 wk b4 or 1 wk after...both on Saturday's...so last night im talking to my MIL & BD & out of nowhere she says, 'i hope the babyshower is on sunday cause i gotta go 2 work on saturday'...mind you, she owns her own salon...she is the OWNER! she says that she cant go on saturday cause then shell miss out on making $400!...understandable...but at the same time, why not SACRIFICE one lil day to go to you FIRST GRANDSONS BABYSHOWER??? she dont even gotta miss a whole day...just a few hours...so my BD got in2 an argument over it...but this morning while i was getting ready 4 work i told him, 'i hope ur mom was just playing about the whole babyshower thing'...& he said no that she was dead ass serious! but then , he starts arguing with me about telling me that i should just make it on a sunday...that to not be so 'confrontational' about it...he doesnt want any fights & is under a lot of stress...& they argued again about it in the morning & he says to her, 'i bet if ur man neede u on a saturday, u would take the day off'...snd she said SHE WOULD TAKE IT OFF!!!! ggrrrr...he flipped out on her! but why should i sacrifice and make it on a sunday just to accomodate her!? thats not fair...i fkn work full time & if i do it on a sunday, i would have 2 go 2 work tired as hell on monday! & she doesnt work on monday so shell be straight!!! ADVISE PLZZZZZZZ X(
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i, myself, am having it on a Sunday because the venue we are having it is packed every saturday for months. so i chose sunday. and it's free so forget having to worry about that. it's very common to have it on a sunday around here.