Abortions are out!!!!!
Well I'm obviously not a pro at this! I just recently lost my virginity and now I'm pregnant! My birthday was two weeks ago and now I'm seventeen and pregnant! I have never believed in abortions so those are out! Now the only options are adoption and keeping it! I'm really scared and my boyfriend is too! If I go through the pregnancy I'm going to want to keep her! Besides I already started with names! But now I'm young....dumb....and pregnant! PLEASE HELP!!!!!
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thanks everyone!!
You can do this, i feel you have a good heart and youre capable of supporting this bby... And the best part is... having your moms support!! You might find some bumps down the road, but take it day by day!! Us pregnany mommies hormones are top notch.... lmao
Good Luck!!
When I was 15 I got pregnant. I hid it from my parents until I was 27wks along. The reasons were because the father was 9yrs older than me (although we had known him&his family for 7yrs beforehand. He always used to come over&hang out, we were all like family. Anyway, we got real close&eventually got together. My parents knew that one day we would end up together, but of course it was thought that it would be after I was 18. Then my mother had always said as long as I could remember that if I ever ended up pregnant she would run, not walk, to the nearest abortion clinic to have it taken care of. So I was naturally very scared to tell her before in fear she would force me to abort my baby. I turned 16 when I was 7mos pregnant. I gave birth to a healthy, beautiful baby girl just 2mos after my 16th birthday. I was in a school district home school program, but my mom hated one of my teachers so she pulled me out of it without setting up for me to go to another school. I was told that 'no grandchild of hers was coming into this world illegitimate', so even though I eventually planned on marrying my daughters father, I wasn't ready at 16. When my daughter was 5wks old, we got married. We lasted 11mos. We tried working it out, but I knew I wasn't in love with him, I was expected&pushed into marrying him immediately, etc. We are parents together, but we haven't been together for 9yrs. He took on my 2nd&3rd children (voluntarily) as his own as their fathers are not responsible for them, he asked me if he could be their daddy. He doesn't treat them any differently than he does his biological daughter, always forgetting he isn't their biological father when we talk about health history& ethics. I am married to the man I am supposed to, who I am madly in love with&fit together in every way perfectly. We are expecting our 2nd child together on our youngests 2nd birthday. I am 27yrs old, have 4 daughters ages 11, 8, almost 6 & 18mos, expecting #5 who we just found out yesterday is a boy. At first my parents were very upset&disappointed, but were very supportive from the get go. My oldest is a 'Papas Girl' who is always attached to my dad when he's around. Things have a funny way of working themselves out, as long as you always try your best&never give up you can go far. Nothing is ever out of reach nor impossible. Always keep the faith.