@mama_kat its actually really common. Another miracle of growing a human I side you is that the umbilical cord is created in a way that it can't strangle a fetus. It is extremely rare for it to be able to do any harm to the baby in utero. Its also rare for it to cause issues during labor but that is the time it would pose any risk, although its a small risk. I've researched this a lot because im a worry wart and that put my mind at ease
Im terribly sorry for your loss and am heart broken for you. I know how badly you wanted your little girl. You now have her and she is watching over you in heaven. But if i where you and im not i would hold her so you have that closure. Because if you dont you may always regret it. I know i did and its something u never get over.
Ugh my heart was sinking reading... hoping fir some kind of hope. I'm so so so sorry. :-< deep breath. I will be praying so hard for your heart to heal... but u make sure to take the time to grieve, and do it your way. We've gone through this twice with two full term nieces and I truly wish there was something we could say or do... nothing makes it ok. But I'm sending heartfelt love & prayers to you and your family.
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