Your killing me! I wanna know about your labor & see that pretty baby lol! I know your busy with babygirl so talke as long as you need to( the next 24 hours) lmao jk but congratulations again!! I'm so happy for you
Sorry I've been so drugged up I can hardly concentrate on what I was typing. Lol. But I've took a break on the pain meds so here goes:
You already know the beginning of the story about my water leaking. We'll I was gonna just wait until after my bf got off work to go to the hospital. He called me on his break at 7 and I told him what was going on and I told him he could stay at work..that I could wait. I didn't tell him that my contractions were already 3 mins apart. I called my mom and told her what was happening and she said I needed to cal him back and go right then and if I didn't call him then she would(she knows I'm stubborn.lol) She lives almost 2 hrs away so she gets packed and ready to come dwn here. I call my bf and he rushes home. I get to the hospital and the clear liquid has stop and I'm leaking a heavy flow of blood. The nurse checks me and said my water bag has not broken yet and I'm only dilated to 2. So I have to stay on tbe machine for about 45 mins. After that I am dilated to only 3 but my contractions were reading as very strong and only 1 minute aprt. So they decide to admit me. Ok..so far so good. Here it gets bad. I get put in a suite and I get pain meds in the iv(which made me feel fantastic! I was high as a kite! Lol) I get hooked back up and watch my epi movie so just in case I choose my mind on it. The nurse leaves and I'm still feeling great. The iv meds were helping a lot. I was just watchin tv and joking around with bf. The nurse is gone maybe 10 minutes whn she rushes back in and demands me onto my side. Its not about 9:30pm. Said the babies heart rate is dropping and then they couldn't find a hb. My doc rushes in with about 6 more doctors and they tell me I have to have an emergency csection. At this time I have each doc/nurse at the doing something different and not explaining anything. One nurse keeps flipping me over trying to get a hb...one of them is making me drink some kinda liquid stuff..one is shaving me down there...one is putting in my cathedar..one os giving me oxygen and my doc is breaking my water bag. ALL AT THE SAME TIME! I was terrified and scared for my baby. They rush me to the OR and tell me they are putting me to sleep. I'm crying because nobody is telling me anything except we have to ge her out NOW! I wake up to soo much pain its terrible at about 2:30am. The doctor is on a stool standing on her tippy toes pushing all her weight onto my incision to get all the extra "liquid" out. It hurt so bad. First thing I do is ask about the baby. Doc said she is doing just fine..said she just couldn't handle the stress of labor because she had no room in my tummy and the contractions were making it worse on her. They took me to my room where my family was waiting. No one had seen the baby yet. I had to wait about an hour to see her because I was jst adjusting to being put asleep. I couldn't really spend a lot of time with her then because I was still drugged up. Woke up this morning and they brought her to me about 2 hrs afer I asked for her(she was just with the pediatrician). She was screaming like crazy..I was soo relieved. My mom fed her for me and she calmed right down. That's the only bottle she took tho. Now I can't get her to take anything but my boobs! She's gonna be high matenince I can see already. Lol. She has been doing great other than the fact she will suck on my boobs for 2 hours nonstop.
She was born November 8 at 10:52pm weighing 8lbs5ozs(fatty!) And 20 inches long! I'm tiny so idk if I could have dilivered her natural anyway.
@Mimii36 finally!!! But aww that must have been freaking scary,not telling you wth is gonig on with your baby! I hope you recover well from the c section & take it easy.& btw she's gorgeous & really light just like you lol.Enjoy motherhood,I'll be joining you shortly!
@lovinmyunborn this csection recovery is terrible. Idk what I would do without the help of her 2 grandmothers & my bd. Its alot to handle. But they were talking about me being able to go home Thursday instead of Friday. & yea she is a whitey like me! Lol. Hopefully she will darken up. & YES you will be!!
@Mimii36 yea that's extra good cause from what I hear your gonna need a few extra hands,but jeez she came fast ass hell but I'm glad you & her are ok & she's soo cute with her spiked hair
@Mimii36 There is a way to know what complexion your baby will be. Look at the ears! Whatever color her ears are, thats the color she will be. My daughter came out light but her ears were dark, sure enough thats her complexion now. Never fails. As soon as this little girl comes out I will be looking at her ears...lol
@lovinmyunborn if she hadnt been in distressed & needing an emergency csection then it wouldnt have been that fast. Got to the hospital at 8pm and was checked into my suite at about 9:15pm. Docs went crazy after that & she came at 10:52pm. & recovery was til about 2-2:30am. & yes I can already aee im going to need alot of help. Thankfully I have it. & yea we gotta get that hair to lay down. Lol.
@Mimii36 Aww congrats..she's a little cutie. Hope you have a quick recovery, just remember you did just have a major surgery so take it easy and enjoy spending time with your baby girl. Trust me I know it's no fun @ first and a little painful, but it'll get better sooner than later.
That's not too bad... some of my friends had c sections and she was walking aaround 3 days after like she never had one lol I hope yur recover goes well... seems like a c section is better than vaginal @mimii36
@mommimisha I agree. I have no clue how many stitches nor could I tell what degree of tearing I got. All I know it hurts like hell. Next time I'm def getting the epi and I'm just going to tell them to cut me. I'm not really complaining about my labor it went very fast I got to the hospital at 1130 had my son at 104 pushed for 30mins. But congrats on your little girl she is sooooooo precious . I wish you speedy recovery.
@stephforever89 lol see thats what iwas thinking stitches on yur jj have to be worst then stitches on yur stomach... but then again when yu laugh and try to get up yu use yur stomach muscles...
@mimii36 awww dang!!! Wonder why people prefer c section over vag... maybe because they dnt want it to change lol... do yu still bleed from yur jj??? Personal question yu dnt have to answer lol
@mommimisha lol it still hurts to laugh, cough , haven't had to sneeze yet. I'm dreading that. Laughing makes my vag muscles hurt. And it feels like I'm having to push a babyallover again. I thought it was funny the nurse was going over my discharge papers. And she said do kegal exercises I think not.....lol or until my stiches dissovle.
@mommimisha yes you still bleed from your vag. & all those problems that stephforever89 mentioned about things hurting...i have those same pains with my csection. I cant even lay down. I have to sleep sitting straight up.
Aw I hate you have to deal with that and your incision. I really hope it gets better for u. Mine is slowly getting there my friend asked me if I looked at it down there I'm too freaking scared too. After seeing what it looked like righbt after he came out I will pass.
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You already know the beginning of the story about my water leaking. We'll I was gonna just wait until after my bf got off work to go to the hospital. He called me on his break at 7 and I told him what was going on and I told him he could stay at work..that I could wait. I didn't tell him that my contractions were already 3 mins apart. I called my mom and told her what was happening and she said I needed to cal him back and go right then and if I didn't call him then she would(she knows I'm stubborn.lol) She lives almost 2 hrs away so she gets packed and ready to come dwn here. I call my bf and he rushes home. I get to the hospital and the clear liquid has stop and I'm leaking a heavy flow of blood. The nurse checks me and said my water bag has not broken yet and I'm only dilated to 2. So I have to stay on tbe machine for about 45 mins. After that I am dilated to only 3 but my contractions were reading as very strong and only 1 minute aprt. So they decide to admit me. Ok..so far so good.
Here it gets bad. I get put in a suite and I get pain meds in the iv(which made me feel fantastic! I was high as a kite! Lol) I get hooked back up and watch my epi movie so just in case I choose my mind on it. The nurse leaves and I'm still feeling great. The iv meds were helping a lot. I was just watchin tv and joking around with bf. The nurse is gone maybe 10 minutes whn she rushes back in and demands me onto my side. Its not about 9:30pm. Said the babies heart rate is dropping and then they couldn't find a hb. My doc rushes in with about 6 more doctors and they tell me I have to have an emergency csection. At this time I have each doc/nurse at the doing something different and not explaining anything. One nurse keeps flipping me over trying to get a hb...one of them is making me drink some kinda liquid stuff..one is shaving me down there...one is putting in my cathedar..one os giving me oxygen and my doc is breaking my water bag. ALL AT THE SAME TIME! I was terrified and scared for my baby. They rush me to the OR and tell me they are putting me to sleep. I'm crying because nobody is telling me anything except we have to ge her out NOW!
I wake up to soo much pain its terrible at about 2:30am. The doctor is on a stool standing on her tippy toes pushing all her weight onto my incision to get all the extra "liquid" out. It hurt so bad. First thing I do is ask about the baby. Doc said she is doing just fine..said she just couldn't handle the stress of labor because she had no room in my tummy and the contractions were making it worse on her. They took me to my room where my family was waiting. No one had seen the baby yet. I had to wait about an hour to see her because I was jst adjusting to being put asleep. I couldn't really spend a lot of time with her then because I was still drugged up. Woke up this morning and they brought her to me about 2 hrs afer I asked for her(she was just with the pediatrician). She was screaming like crazy..I was soo relieved. My mom fed her for me and she calmed right down. That's the only bottle she took tho. Now I can't get her to take anything but my boobs! She's gonna be high matenince I can see already. Lol. She has been doing great other than the fact she will suck on my boobs for 2 hours nonstop.
She was born November 8 at 10:52pm weighing 8lbs5ozs(fatty!) And 20 inches long! I'm tiny so idk if I could have dilivered her natural anyway.
SORRY SO LONG and if there's any misspellings!
@lovinmyunborn this csection recovery is terrible. Idk what I would do without the help of her 2 grandmothers & my bd. Its alot to handle. But they were talking about me being able to go home Thursday instead of Friday. & yea she is a whitey like me! Lol. Hopefully she will darken up. & YES you will be!!
@mommimisha thank you very much!
You guys are NEXT!!
Aww congrats..she's a little cutie. Hope you have a quick recovery, just remember you did just have a major surgery so take it easy and enjoy spending time with your baby girl. Trust me I know it's no fun @ first and a little painful, but it'll get better sooner than later.
Ur labor story sounds just like my sisters...i wish they would fill u in faster instead of leaving u in the dark.
How long did they say yur recovery process will be
@mama2be11_4_11 @momof22be @juliansmommy thank you guys!
@mommimisha sshhyt..your friend was superwoman! I wouldve chose vaginal over csection ANY day! Csection was terrible & still aint no joke!
@mimii36 awww dang!!! Wonder why people prefer c section over vag... maybe because they dnt want it to change lol... do yu still bleed from yur jj??? Personal question yu dnt have to answer lol