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luv2bfree10

Lately I've been feeling scared that the arrival of the "new" baby will affect my... youngest child negatively. She will only be 20 mo. When the baby is born & she is attached to my hip. I know I won't be able to give her the attention she is used to w/ a newborn to care for. I'm all of the suudden terrified to will be tramatized or our so very close relationship w/ change...is anyone else going thru this?

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  • I didn't find out til I wk before I had my 1st..there were 3 us but she just was not cooperating. It was so nerve racking! Like you I wanted to know & I wanted to know now! It happens but hopefully you will find the next time..good luck!
  • I have always considered myself pro choice and after reading this I still stand by that but w/ limits...I have never agreed w/ late term abortions for any reason. Although it is not my place to judge anyone's decision what was depicted in this artic…
  • She really should go to the dr. Especially if she's having abdominal pain...it is very possible to have a healthy pregnancy after a miscarrage. I miscarried in the beginning of october and now a healthy 14 wks...good luck w/ sis in law
  • Never your gonna be a mom!
  • My oldest daughter has been dead on w/ knowing that im prego before I do!..she told her teacher one day that i was having a baby & the teacher asked me about it i was like no im not & then like 2-3wks later i found out I was!..then w/ this p…
  • Mirena is great! Worked well for me for about 8mo. But unfortunately nothing is full proof there is still a 1 in 1000 chance that you can still get prego w/ the mirena & I am the that lucky 1!..my advice do your homework, talk to your doc & …
  • Lucky duck! Enjoy cause when you do start to show you'll wish you could go back!
  • The recommeded allowance of fish when you are pregnant is 6-8 oz. A week because of mercury levels which is why this craving is killing me! My thought on it is since it is such a persistent craving than maybe there is an underlying issue going on. Y…
  • You can tell the sex of a baby by fetal ultrasound at 16 wks sounds like your ob just wants to be on the safe side. I would ask if you get schedule it sooner. Maybe you can slide in at 18 wks. Its worth a shot then you only have to wait 3wks & d…
  • I did a water birth for my 2nd child it was amazing! There are not alot of. Hospitals that will allow you to do one. I had to go to a hosp an hr away from my home. Also having a midwife is key esp if hubby isn't fully on board. I would recommend a m…
  • I know every prego mom (esp. 1st timers) can't wait to feel those first flutters. Me included & this is my 3rd time around!...but unfortunately its pretty unlikely that you will feel your little one's movement before 18 wks..this is what I tell …