@3rdoneontheway honestly yes! it's just entertainment. we actually went to Magic City in Atlanta together when we were engaged but I would freely let him go alone if he wanted.
I dunno. I guess everyone's relationship is different but I trust that he's faithful and takes our vows to heart. He's a great guy and won't do anything he isn't supposed to be doing.
I might would let him but I dont know because I haven't been put in that situation I mean I was preggo we used to go totgether but now I might be a little to insecure :">
Lol absolutely! I would be going with him... Hell I would have more fun there than he would... But that's prolly cuz I've worked at like 5 of them xD oh man those places are fun!
I guess its a personally choice I let my hubby go all the time its kinda like a male bonding thing for them I've been a couple times before and it was honestly really fun but hey to each his own I trust my man to not do anything outta line and I don't think of it as he's going to ckeck out chicks he has no respect for those girls its just something men do oh and there are actually times I couldn't say no because his cheif at work has taken him and you don't no to someone higher up the food chain lol
not tryna be ugly but where's the trust? what are you all afraid of. honestly if he watches porn and you are aware that he does...it really isn't much difference. in my opinion porn is worse.
Honestly, yes I would. Lol simply because A) I trust him completely, and I have no doubt in my mind how he feels and thinks about me And because it doesn't matter where he charges his battery as long as he crosses no lines and comes home to run it down But of course he has earned that level of trust from me. Is your husband being a butt?
And if he is faithful why go that's being unfaithful right there would you let him just meet some random chick and take her to a hotel to strip for him even if they didn't do anything in a man's head one thing that they think about so hard leads to another that they usually regret but ur right everyone's relationship is different
My husband has a few times during our 6 year marriage, the last time being while I was out of town when our daughter was 18 months old and I was pregnant with our now 2 year old son. He felt bad about it when I got home and to my knowledge he hasn't been to one since. It didn't bother me so much until our daughter was born and then I realized that those women ate someone's daughter
yeah... i let him go... but he usually doesnt want to go and 98% of the time he wants me to come(he likes that i tip the ladies)/ i end up droppin him and his buddies off... he only likes to go to hang out with friends and drink the strippers are like a mariachi band to him he doesnt care that theyre there but if they come and play for him he'll give them a tip...
Yup, He knows im not threated by them, they are kinda silly to me lol. But we trust each other completely. He doesnt go to them often maybe twice since we have been together.
Ummm weve been to a couple together with friends and such... its the private dances that freak me out. He went away for a weekend for his brother in lws bachelor party and tgey had stripers come to tge house. I didnt like it at all but I didnt feel right telling him he couldnt go... He told me all about it...the bachelo laid down and put a 20 on his face and one girl bent down and picked it up with her vajayjay!! Yuk! I understand for bachelor partys once in a while tho I dont like it... But if it was a regular thing for no "reason"....no thank you
@finallypregnant2 it's not like they get to touch them or really even talk to them. I know a couple of strippers, and maybe they are different, but they wouldn't give 90% of their clients the time of day. Haha
Lol. I'm not sure. I trust my husband but I do get jealous. Once we walked into one of the stores he works in and a lady who also worked there said hi to him and winked at him. He was surprised, but I got pissed. Instead of unleashing hell on her, I gave her a nasty glare. That being said, I don't think my issue would be him looking at other girls, it would be other girls trying to give him a lap dance. That's my job, lady!
I'm not saying at all that they would it's just I don't believe that my husband needs to go look at another woman's features not saying that mine are bad at all just men love the idea of another women
Strippers have souls! okay.. Well, the ones I know.do... Idk about porn stars, my god sister does porn and she was going to be the god mom of my baby... Changed my mind on that one, don't want her influencing my kid like that. But also remember most strippers have kids and husbands and really aren't bad ppl. They don't want his dick they just want his wallet lol I recommend going with him
Well if you look at in the view like wats the point like me & the hubby do thats for young ppl I guess its ok I went with him before but he has his own stripper at home wats the point he lovess me & dont need to go to those places he never ask after we got married.
@finallypregnant2 the strip clubs you have in mind are obviously some low class clubs. no stripper leaves the club and dances in filthy hotel rooms for anyone. If you want private dances, that's what the VIP section is for. I know my hub doesn't care for any lap dances nor private dances. Like I said it's just entertainment...heck I enjoyed myself when we went together.
Nothing is wrong with letting your man kick back and enjoy himself sometimes.
I guess everyone has their OWN definition of being faithful and unfaithful! Sorry but going to a strip club and I am aware that he's there...does NOT make him unfaithful. Now if he was hiding something then yes that is unfaithful...but I know his character and who I married. We don't hide anything nor do we have any secrets. Unfortunately not all marriages are like that :-/
And some women have a greater level of trust and security in their husbands and marriage. So I stand by my previous statement(s).
I don't mind my hubby going. But I didn't always feel that way. We went to one together a few years ago and my opinion changed. My issue is more with the expense. $6 for a beer is a little outrageous. If he's gonna drop a large chunk of money somewhere it better be on a stroller or something we need! Lol
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I dunno. I guess everyone's relationship is different but I trust that he's faithful and takes our vows to heart. He's a great guy and won't do anything he isn't supposed to be doing.
Nothing is wrong with letting your man kick back and enjoy himself sometimes.
I guess everyone has their OWN definition of being faithful and unfaithful! Sorry but going to a strip club and I am aware that he's there...does NOT make him unfaithful. Now if he was hiding something then yes that is unfaithful...but I know his character and who I married. We don't hide anything nor do we have any secrets. Unfortunately not all marriages are like that :-/
And some women have a greater level of trust and security in their husbands and marriage. So I stand by my previous statement(s).