You caught your husband/bf watching porn,or had porn in their phone?? I got really pissed about the whole thing,idk if its my hormones or not, but what would you ladies have done?
I hate to say it but hun it is probably your hormones. think about it this way. Would you rather he look at porn or go out a cheat. With my husband I try to give it too him as much as i can but with being pregnant the thought of sex scares me and grosses out out not sure why. I told him that if i can give him all the sex he needs that if he needs porn i understand. I would rather him watch porn then cheat on me. I mean he understands why i dont want sex. If you are really worried about it, ask him about it. Or maybe even join him in watching it lol.
my husband for some reason always shows me or tells me what stuff he watches and does on his phone. mayb its just cuz we trust eachother... we have always been VERY open with eachother about everything. we have been together for 10 years very faithfully. we even tell eachother who or what we think is good looking so on so forth. its funny to talk about who we think is good looking and things, we never let it get to us. mayb thats what makes us work. just give it time things will b ok!
Seeing as i take care of myself in times of need, i know he does the same. We aren't together everyday and it happens. So if it was me, i wouldn't be mad. Its ppl he will never see/meet. I read raunchy books rather then watch porn. Every person os different.
I get pissed off too. I've text all his friends to tell him to stop sending him them but he just deletes them before he gets home from work now so I won't know.
I really dont care if my husband watches porn, hes a guy and im prego and my sex drive is super low he has to get off some how, but even when I wasnt prego he watched it sometimes. Its no big deal to me
@1sttimemommy18 And think about if your not in the mood then maybe the porn will help, plus you want to get all the sex out of the way before the baby comes b/c once the baby does there will be no time for sex.
I would of felt the same way, i would not of been happy! That's why having so many women lighten up the situation on this forum helps. Now u can get this out of the way and join in;)
Well here's my shpill if my husband needs to get off and I'm not around it's fine as long as I still get some if I want it and it has to be good not a quickie but like what happened to me the other day I was taking a nap and he locked himself in the bathroom to watch pissed me off to no end and it hurt because I was right there and all he had to do was wake me up cuz I'm ready for him anytime geez the nerve some men have gggggggrrrrrrr [-X
My husband and I watch porn together from time to time. I know he watches porn every once in awhile due to him telling me. I honestly don't mind. I know he masturbates because at 35 wks I don't feel like having sex too often. He knows I masturbate too. Other than that we have a pretty great sex life so im definitely don't mind it. Id rather him do that then go out and cheat.
Doesn't bother me :-) it can help a relationship to have it out in the open. I only think its a problem if they are OBSESSED with it and watch 24hrs a day lol
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