@luvbump: i had one of those nurses with my last pregnancy. If i could've hot up i would have slapped her. @blissmarie23 i see a midwive and being induced at 39 weeks but only because of medical reasons. Its definitely your choice whether you are induced .
Hmm my biggest fear is not really too much of anything related to birth persay. Im terrified of dying during child birth, or my son dying during child birth. I find that iv's aren't too bad unless they blow out a vain when they do it like this lady did last time I went to the hospital >.< im kinda used to everything else I guess. So yeah death would be my biggest fear
@baileygoose Well Im having a csection so i know there will be pain and being stuck in the hospital for several days you cant say anything to them because theyll make your stay a living hell... I learned the hard way with that.
@isaiahnjocelynsmommy I'm scared that the baby wont like me and that I won't be a good mom or that I'll be unattached to him or her. Idk why but that's just always on my mind. I just want to be a great mommy. What did he do that let you know he loved you?
@isaiahnjocelynsmommy I really hope so!!! I can take the pain all day long but I'm just terrified of not being a good mom. 27 more weeks and I'll find out! Lol. I'm sure I'll feel better when he/she is actually in my arms! Thank you for the encouragement I really needed that.
@hurstk28-one of my labor doulas does alot of research on childbirth and she has found a few preliminary studies possibly linking autism with.pitocin. I asked her if I could try castle oil instead of the pitocin or using a breast pump to encourage labor.
I'm hoping to talk to Dr tomorrow to help relieve my fear...not making it to the hospital. W my 2nd I got to the hospital at 3:30 and had him at 5:45...Dr is talking bout inducing me to b on the safe side. Other than that, her coming out a him...got rid of all my boys clothes through 6-9 month so he would b in a lot of pink for the first few months lol
@blissmarie23 my last two kids i was induced and they are 2 and 3 and perfectly fine. But i have had medical problems with my last 3 pregnancies so i guess that's why i have been induced each time.
I want more than anything to have a completely natural birth. I would be devestated to have something go wrong and not be able to do it... I worry I won't be as strong as I think I am
I've never shared this but my biggest fear doesn't have to do with labor specifically cause all my labors were just a couple hours long and natural births; but my mom was killed in a car accident when I was young and I fear going into a labor due to a car accident... I never worry about car accidents any other time but when I've been pregnant; weird?
As this is my second my biggest fears r going into labor naturally as I was induced last time and they broke my waters and labor was instant and quick so I don't think I could cope with the (maybe days) constant niggles
My biggest fear is something is going to be wrong with my baby. My first child was non responsive and after I had her they took her to nicu, I had her at 4:16pm didn't even get to see her till 11:30pm I got to see a picture of her. Then when I got up there she was hooked up to so many wires and had a iv in her head. They told me that she wasn't on oxygen that she was breathing good, then I get up there and see her on so many cords and oxygen. I flipped out. I left the hospital and she had to stay for 3 more days. That was beyond horrible.
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@blissmarie23 i see a midwive and being induced at 39 weeks but only because of medical reasons. Its definitely your choice whether you are induced .
Well Im having a csection so i know there will be pain and being stuck in the hospital for several days you cant say anything to them because theyll make your stay a living hell... I learned the hard way with that.
Labor just makes me nervous