If my daughter was dating someone who she fought with so severely that she resorted to hitting him, I would ask her to seriously reevaluate that relationship. If he hit her back I would be mad at him but honestly more mad at her for allowing herself to be in that type of relationship in the first place. Violence of any kind has no place in a loving relationship.
The fact that he prevented you from calling for emergency help when the fight started is illegal. I believe it may even be a felony. I think you have to get away from each other.
I agree with @magcaw in my situation I felt like I deserved it because I can be a hot head sometimes and tend to speak with my hands Ofcourse Im not saying this was your fault at all and in no way am I defending what he did. Maybe you guys need to talk about it and see if he is trully sorry or not.
Now cheating is another story lol. If I found out my man cheated I'm sure I would slap him lol but on the other hand if I had been cheating and he found out I wouldn't blame him for slapping me either. Cheating is making a mockery of your vows to your spouse/fiance and I have no tolerance for that, male or female. @isaiahnjocelynsmommy
Yall are a couple so yall will have the arguements that come along but geesh ur pregnant think about the baby ur carrying...is it okay? Have it moved since? Be careful
To be clear, though--my husband and I have come to blows at least twice in the course of our 12 years of knowing each other, and though he's held my hands back and pushed me away, he's never hit me. I really hope that you and he can figure out where to go from here calmly. Sometimes people just bring out the worst in each other. Has anything like this happened before?
That being said both of us respect and love each other too much to allow anything to come to physical violence, and we would never cheat on each other. So I don't have to worry about it lol.
@isaiahnjocelynsmommy it sure aint right for a man to think its ok to beat on a woman and Im sorry if you dont agree with this but women can be just as abusive as men. I have witnessed it first hand. I had a friend who felt she could treat and talk to her man how ever she wanted. Talked down on him slap him alot of times for no big reasons at all. Talk crap infront of friends and family. Her own dad told him he needed to smack the taste out her mouth. I will teach my son to keep his hands to himself but I will not let no one abuse him just like I wont allow him to abuse no one. Man or woman.
I dont condone hitting him. I have no other strength in me when he's holding my arms back and pushing me around. I felt like he was trying to embarrass me, especially by being on the phone while the whole thing was going on. He was first to shove me in my face and push me to the couch when it all began but he didnt hit me. I threatened to call the police after that and that's when all hell broke loose in my house... I understand to not hit him if I dont expect the same in return but in my mind I thought he wouldn't do it again after we've already gone thru this. Its all a mess in my mind at the moment so everything im trying to say is scrambled. I decided to be on pregly because I dont want the people I see day to day to know what's going on. I have enough problems and I try to be private for the most part.
i dont think is ok a women hit a man just because she want too but we all know the fact of a man is more strong and if the women is pregnant is just wrong wrong wrong. im not agree with violence in any way or sex but my father hit my mother almost 8 years or more and she had an abortion at 6 months pregnant of a baby in one of their fights...she go to the ER a lot of times and she stay with him just because us. and she say that start with a fight when she hit him and them he never stop of hit her again just because he thought he was the boss of my mother`s owner. so if a man dare to do that to me or my sister or an uknow women on front of me...im going to kick the bastard because he was born from a women belly and all that pain she had worth for respect to all the other womens in the world
@isaiahnjocelynsmommy thats hoe Ive learned to be too. When things are heated I back off till we calm down. Sometimes when a person is really angry they can say and do things they will regret later.
If I am being unclear about this shoving it is not in my body alone it was in my face. I dont care either way I just wish it would not have happened at all. Period point blank. I dont want my kids beating on anyone or anyone beating on my kids. I just wish it never happened
@kerrideeRn I just dont think we mesh anymore. Idk. Its silly now when its all over with. I wish it completely had not happened. I dont want to be provoked and I dont sit around trying to provoke people. I love the man and do a lot of things for him that I've been called stupid for but it was because of love. I dont know where its gone to now. He's different and so am I. I just dont know anymore.
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Ofcourse Im not saying this was your fault at all and in no way am I defending what he did. Maybe you guys need to talk about it and see if he is trully sorry or not.
I really hope that you and he can figure out where to go from here calmly. Sometimes people just bring out the worst in each other. Has anything like this happened before?
I understand to not hit him if I dont expect the same in return but in my mind I thought he wouldn't do it again after we've already gone thru this. Its all a mess in my mind at the moment so everything im trying to say is scrambled. I decided to be on pregly because I dont want the people I see day to day to know what's going on. I have enough problems and I try to be private for the most part.
I just dont think we mesh anymore. Idk. Its silly now when its all over with. I wish it completely had not happened. I dont want to be provoked and I dont sit around trying to provoke people. I love the man and do a lot of things for him that I've been called stupid for but it was because of love. I dont know where its gone to now. He's different and so am I. I just dont know anymore.