A ? For everyone in a relationship..

edited May 2011 in Pregnant
Whether youre married, engaged, or just "bf/gf"....
HONESYLY...Do you feel like you are with the person youre meant to be with for life? Or do you doubt it in some way? (even if you are in love with them)

If you "just know"..when did you realize it & why do you feel this way? Same thing for the ones who arent completely sure?
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  • Im with my soul mate. I met him on halloween, preggy dec. 3rd, and married friday, feb. 13th... he's my evereverything :X
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  • Im been with my husband for six years but still have doubts Haha like when he is being stupid or immature Haha but no I will spend the rest of life with him..I just don't like to say it out loud haha
  • @tricesbaby aww thats sweet!
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    Yes I know this is the man I'm suppose to be with.

    Not to sound cheesy but the way everything falls into place with our relationship, makes me believe that God had approved this.
  • Yes I am. Hes the love of my life, were engaged.and Im nit sure when I knew forsure. But it was early in the relationship. Hes my everything <3
  • Been with my man 10 years and married for 7 on baby #5
  • I am married to my best friend and whether we like it or not we are together for life. I new my hubby was the one about 4 months into dating and he knew too, cuz he proposed after only 4 1/2 months of dating. We have been married now for 6 1/2 years and I wouldn't trade him for the world!!! :X
  • I love my husband but I honestly don't know if we were meant to be together.
  • I believe so b/c we always thinking abour us being old together what to expect like this is it n i cant see myself with anyone else even b4 we were serious sumthing drew me to him not psychical just sumthing within sounds crazy probably but then he's younger n I dnt knw but instead of stressing b/c i do believe nothing is promised 2 us but death ill say as long as we happy then yes n if it ever changes then hell nall lol
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  • I love my husband :X I knew about a month after we started "dating" wed be together forever :) 10 years later and I still feel like hes my forever man! I cant imagine being with any other man. Nor any other man being good enough. Hes my soul mate. The best father for my kids. And he makes me a better person just by loving me :X
  • I'm with who I'm meant to be with. Even though I sometimes get to where I can't stand him. But that's normal. There was a time I was gonna leave him but we've grown & learned. I've been with my hub since 8/15/98 & married on 8/15/03. Had our daughter on 9/16/00. Now preggy again. We've had evil downs and happy ups. We have grown up together. I can't imagine life without him. I don't want to either.
  • I love my husband but I can say that we are one of those couples that has to work at our relationship everyday. But I do feel like we are meant to be together. There have been a lot of signs telling us that. Plus there is the fact that it only took a few weeks for us to have the wonderful surprise of expecting our first daughter. We are both in our mid 20s and never had any surprise babies with anyone else and bc has been the same since we were teenagers. When ttc with #2 we had a bfp on the first cycle. If nothing else we are meant to make babies with each other lol and I know im gonna be biased but sometimes I can't believe how cute/pretty our daughter turned out to be but that could just be the mom in me talking lol
  • I have been with my husband for six years and I still have doubts. But I kn he loves me and he is a good man and a good father
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  • It was love at first sight with my hubby and I . We started dating at 13 years old it was funny because neither of out parents approved but it never stopped us. Now we are 21 and have been married for two years with our own home and life and a third baby on the way. Not to say he dose make me crazy every now and then. :"> I'm still so in love and it only grows more and more.
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    @TricesBaby I was jusy curious to know how everyone else felt. I mean I love my bf but I have doubts everyday that he is the one im destined to be with. Its just that we all have an idea of what we want out of that person that we are so called destined to be with..& well honestly he is nothing like my idea.
  • Been wit my bf for 8mths. He just proposed 2 me last week. Known him since I was 15. Hes been pursuing me for 6 years. I finally gave him a chance & im positive hes the one. We've been thru alot & hes still by my side. Hes my shelter gudiance & support. Love him to death! I knew the moment he cried ova me tht he was the one. Never has a guy expressed their feelings towards me like he has. & I cant wait 2 spend the rest of my life wit him :)
  • I haven't even been with my fiance for a year, I'm 5 months pregnant with his child and I definitely have my doubts. When we got engaged, I felt we were meant to be together and I could see myself spending my life with him but his insecurities and trust issues got to be too much. I'm afraid that if we get married it's only going to get worse and I feel like he will try to control me. Now that I'm pregnant, every little thing he says or does gets on my last nerve. We fuss and fight all the time. Honestly, I don't know if I'm going to marry him and if I wasn't pregnant with his child I would have already ended the relationship. I refuse to marry him just because I'm pregnant with his child and if things don't get better between us, we definitely won't be getting married anytime soon. If it were up to him we would be married before the baby is born in October but that's not going to happen. He's hoping it's just my hormones but I told him I'm not going to blame it on my hormones because that's like a cop out. He treated me like I wasn't trustworthy when I gave him no reason not to trust me and accused me of lying a few times even though I wasn't lying all because of his insecurities and trust issues from past relationships and that's just not ok.
  • All couples have their issues. No one in life is perfect. I know that i am with the person i will be with for the rest of my life and I couldn't imagine life without him. :)
  • The Love of my life and I have been married for 8 years today. I know he's the one for me, we just fit. No matter how hard I try, I can't imagine my life without him in it. He is my one and only, my everything. Best part is I know he loves me just as much. We are truely lucky. :X
  • I thought we were ment to be until he pulled what he pulled last week. My fireworks are gone with him
  • 100% I am with the love of my life. We have been married 8mos and our baby girl is due in Oct. I met my hubby about a year after going through a bad divorce. I never knew it was possible to him as much as I do. 50yrs from now, I see us still giving each other kisses every chance we get and him still grabbing my ass in the grocery store. I have never felt love like I do from him as well. He is going to be an amazing father.
    Some of the things you ladies are wonderful... I am tearing up lol... Damn you hormones
  • All these great words you ladies are saying! Cant really say I can come up with any like that!
  • @garagebandfan lol i feel like that too sometimes

    even though im probably with the man ill be with for the rest of my life, i still have doubts sometimes but i think that's normal because it would be naive to believe ur partner will never change and will always want the same thing so in that sense you have to always work at the relationship.. but i think we're meant to be because all the signs say so.. we both feel like no matter what we would have ended up meeting and getting to know each other even if we each lived on opposite sides of the world :)
  • Completely in love with my husband after almost 8 years of being together, 7 years of marriage and almost 3 babies later. I met him when I was married to my troll of an ex husband. We were separated and I was dealing with his shit when I met my husband. We talked for a while and then started dating and it was head spinning and heart thumping from then. He proposed almost 4 months after we started dating and I got pregnant with our first right before he left on a deployment. When he was gone I literally felt like half of me was missing but he left me with a little piece of him. I still get butterflies thinking about him and he makes me laugh. Sometimes I want to punch him in the junk because I swear he loves to push my buttons!

    Yep that is my story and I am sticking to it or at least until I meet Alexander Skarsgard! JK
  • I definitely am. I just love him so much!
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