I agree...I admit a lot of times I don't say what I want to say because I don't want confrontation...People do need to realize everything isn't going to be sugarcoated to make them feel better...sometimes you need to hear the TRUTH....
Yeah I am now in hush mode lol. Its said because I want to give advise to people and want to receive it as well. @excitedforoctober child I had to leave I can't stand bold fingers. I'm bold all the time and my feelings aren't hurt about it but it was best for me to back off because I would have said some ish that would have destroyed her. She is clueless to the knowledge a lot of us women have about certain things. And simply just trying to help and give a different perspective is just unacceptable for that thread. I'm over it. I'm not gonna be played for a fool by it and hope others stop sucking the persons a$$ and be real with her. This ain't no fan club! But thinks ladies @allyall I really appreciate how y'all feel.
@QueenNique i agree with you as well and @ExcitedForOctober omg you took the words right out of my mouth. this is a forum and if you ask for advice then thats what you get. if you dnt want the truth then say just give me sugar coated answers. I have yet to get attacked by the "lynch mob" but i can promise you they will not like the beast i will bc lol neway i have seen first hand how some get away with breaking all the rules and others are bashed and banished bc of the samething. thats y i try and just comment on the posts thats saying im in labor or i had my baby. some ppl put way to much time into this forum when they shouldnt. dont feel bad for being honest, remember its just the internet and at the end of the day you have the final decision and you dont have to deal with this ppl in real life. i love pregly and i will contiune to post, add comment or pics but some ppl need to stop taking everything thats not what they what to hear to heart.
Haha I agree with you & with @ExcitedForOctober I know EXACTLY what thread that was. Smh! Lol & we would be banned but that's the rule breaking for you! I guess they make exceptions...
@Janet_2011 ....i just sat back and watched people's reactions when I first got on pregly and it was crazy. That's when I decided to stay away from the threads that look like they're going to be drama filled or, like you, I'll just post when I have something nice to say. It shouldn't be like that, but hey it is!!!
I've been on here since june and i've noticed if your not part of the clique or you don't post something that might be interesting your post dosnt get commented on. I had a post a few weeks back about my mother in law and i just needed some one to talk to about it and i waited hours for someone to finally comment.
@QweenNique I agree, there is a difference between supporting her and just kissing her ass. I feel bad for her situation dont get me wrong but it doesnt give her the right to act that way. Ah well, we'll just keep our opinions to ourselves!
@ExcitedForOctober I agreed with @QweenNique because I lost a baby before this pregnancy oh but I'm the inconsiderate one! idk & yet the lets jump on the bandwagon crew KEPT going like stfu cry me a river!
I am a ftm and I am very thankful for Pregly. Idk if I'm one of the ones that over reacts or causes.drama, if so, I'm sorry. I try not to. When I read something I don't agree with or have something positive to say something about (or if its just so sad and I'm bawling my eyes out and can't hardly see the words anymore) I don't post. I do vent on here tho... I appreciate getting feedback on that as well as when I have my FREAK OUTS. Idk what is do without this. I have learned a lot from reading on here from everyone's experiences. Thank you :-D
Thank you @QweenNique cuz I had to bite my tongue since the post @fashion_junky91 posted people blow s***out of proportion and it dont make sense. Several drs even told me that yes you do go through emotions during pregnancy but it should never be to the point where you would spazz out and blame it on pregnancy that most just use it as an excuse. They also said that if it is that serious then its post partum disorder or bipolar and we ourselves can't say oh I have it you have to be diagnosed with it. So as far as that emotional thing I feel like this if its that serious for you to flip out on someone then you shouldn't have opened your mouth to begin with take your hind to a psychiatrist and let them help you. After all we are just pregnant women talking on the internet so you will get good and bad responses and nothing professional. Anytime you go through something serious dont take no ones advice but a professionals. Oh and for the dont post if you dont like it who's in charge to say anyones advice is wrong or bs or trying to hurt somebody if they aint curse or talk mad s*!; how would you know? For all you know that person dont want to hear it cuz they stubborn and run off crying not listening to the message cuz they DONT WANT TO!!! That dont mean we can't post!!! You dont like it dont start the topic how bout that!!! You dont like wat I said oh well you can love it or hate it!!
Well I can say I am sorry that people go through what they do but seriously this is real life & you cant sit and expect everyone to ooh & aaww everything you say or do because everyone isnt going to agree then turn around & get mad & tell them to get off my post when they're doing what you asked for giving their oppinion & what really kills me since I joined pregly many moons ago are all the "groupies" who jump on people for being honest thats so dumb because u cant ask for help or advice on something then tell people if you dont like it then move on or dont post then...okay seriously if your only posting looking for a sympathy train then you should say in your post " I need advice on blah blah but only comment with nice words & sympathy because I dont like hearing real world things"
@supermom405 I now wish I had a sticky question so I could request only sugarcoated responces. . .because I'm weird and that would amuse me greatly. There are several threads that I wouldn't go near if paid. And I feel a bit bad about the BIG one cause I do have personal experiences similar to whats going on but I'm not going to get attacked on the internet for sharing a painful time in my families history and it being taken wrong for some probably dumb reason.
@OregonMama I actually find it funny how yall think that every negative comment on people being rude is about her. Yes some are directlu talking about her, but I know im talking about many members who do the same thing. And for you to see that that us who some are talking about means that you know thats what happens with her & her post if ppl dont agree with whats going on or dont give the answers desired then she becomes rude & ppl get jumped on. Do you honeslty think thats okay to do? Because im certain you dont because thats why you said what you said on here about ppl ganging up on her...so in all rationality it not okay unless its the other way around. This isnt the 1st time some one has came to her defence to justify her actions after she's been rude HELLO you cant really expect ppl not to get upset if someone disrespects them no matter who it is.... Im jus sayin
@HavingNumber4 couldnt have said it better! They always say oh don't post on my topic blah blah blah. Well how about YOU not post the topic. Not EVERYBODY is going to agree.
@feb2012mommy I agree with you 100% I have posted a few times with hardly anyone (if anyone at all) replying, then seen a post pretty much the same as mine with soooo many comments.... guess you just have to be 'IN' with the right people :-?
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There are several threads that I wouldn't go near if paid. And I feel a bit bad about the BIG one cause I do have personal experiences similar to whats going on but I'm not going to get attacked on the internet for sharing a painful time in my families history and it being taken wrong for some probably dumb reason.