Am I wrong? *please don't Judge*

mommy_dr

So I am turning 21 this coming up Sunday ( yes I know I am young please no judging), I want to go out to Dave and Busters for a couple hours. My son will be with my ex-husband ( his dad) for the weekend and my youngest will be with a baby sitter is it wrong of me to want to go out?

jazzi89

Nope!

beaded_bunny

Not at all. Because you are a mother doesn't mean your life ends no matter what people try to make you believe

pawgio

No, go have fun! :-)

yung_danz28

I don't see anything wrong. I turned 21 while pregnant and couldn't do shit. But I can't wait til October for fright night at our amusement park. By then my son will b 1month and my mom will watch him. But moms deserve some time off too just like a regular job.

pinkbaby0930

Nope go enjoy your bday!

LittleFae

Nope go have fun!!

sissylala

Now if you included plans of knocking back a few shots and margaritas to celebrate the legal drinking age, ide say yes. Very wrong... if you're preggy, of course... but you are very much entitled to a break and a good time

clope18

I don't think its wrong. My due date was yesterday & I will be induced this Thursday. I turn 21 Oct.23rd & plan to go out. Your life isn't over just bcuz u have a baby. We're still human..YOUNG & DESERVE time to ourselves every now & then

mommy_dr

@all I didn't think it's wrong, It's not like I plan on getting trashed. I don't get out often I'm stuck here at my apartment with 2 kids day in and out. But wow people sure do know how to make you feel guilty

BentleysMommy

Nope! And I'm 17! Lol 21 isn't so bad. Go have some fun

kara_lamek

Ill be 8months pregnant on my 21st bday and I plan on going out to the casinos after my baby is born and a couple months old.. not to gamble they have really cool bars and a buffet! Lol and people are tripping on me for it... Im not even a drinker. I don't think its wrong in any kind of way as long as you leave your baby with someone responsible. Which you are! So go have some fun you deserve it!

brendalou

Oohhhh, I wanna go! Have fun. After all the hard work you put into growing your baby, you definitely should go. You've earned it ;-)

happymommyof2

GO OUT AND HAVE FUN!! Even mommies are allowed to have s good time!! Happy birthday!!

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Mamato2boys

it is not wrong at all!! every mother needs a break here n there no matter what age they are!! and what u choose to do to unwind is your choice!.........I think the only time it is wrong for a mother to go out is when they start doing it for selfish reasons.....i have a lot of friends who were preggo at the same time as me (@17) and still to this day (6 yrs later) they are still in "party mode" i think that is wrong in that situation just because your kids should know u as their parent first not the grandparents.....but u go head on and party!!!! after all u need a break and hey u only turn 21 once!!! I'd advise u do more than just Dave & Busters lol go party ur young and should still be allowed to have fun here n there \m/ lol

sands3

Of course not!! Go out and have some fun!

momof22be

Go!!!!!! Have lots of fun

newmomma13

Nope go out and have a good time

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Wilsomom

No worries, have some fun. I don't condone drinking, but I don't judge either. You're actually a better mom when you get some breaks. And I started having kids when I was 18 & I don't regret a minute of it.

emy

Def not, go have u some fun!!!!

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pnsw524

Not at all!! My 21st is in october and im going to a nonsmoking strip club with my hubby a.d some friends! My oldest will be with his noname(grandma) go out & enjoy your self!

adri805

Nope have dun girl

adri805

fun