Pissed as F - C K

KayyCarter

My boyfriend got back a good amount of cash from taxes. So did I. He buys himself a Macbook pro, a mbox mini, a Mic, a Mic stand, pro tools 10, the works. You know wtf I get? A cup with a bear in it. A tea mug. Not even a big teddy bear, but a mini teddy bear small enough to fit in the cup. For 2 years I went all out on him. Bought him a wardrobe, rented a hotel for a whole weekend and never expected much from him because at the time he wasn't working much but really? I'm so fuckin pissed I can't even sleep. I'm supposed to use the cup "when you're sick and you can think of me when I'm not here by the bear." Someone please help me before I lose my fuckin mind. And not to mention that we went to jcpenney and I spent $150 of my fuckin money on his ass so he wouldn't have to spend nearly $400 and I get a $10 fuckin cup, if its even worth that. Okay.

YNVTish

That's what's wrong with us ladies... We think about the man first.

KayyCarter

Oh and where is he now? Putting memory in the fuckin Macbook pro while I lie in bed with my fussy 5 month old. All I fuckin hear about is what he wants to buy himself next. "I need my interface." Fuck that shit. If his ass was fuckin broke I wouldn't act like this. Fuck that. This wasn't supposed to be my year to break bread. It should've been him. I just had the fuckin baby. I'm the one who treated his ass like a fuckin king on previous Valentine days. And here I fuckin sit WITH A CUP.

KayyCarter

@ynvtish
You're damn right! I am afraid to open my mouth for what I'm going to say but I'm hurt! I'm in my bed crying and I feel petty but I still feel violated.

KayyCarter

Oh and I suppose I should be satisfied because he thought of me when he went to Walmart that day and I suppose he deserves a round of applause because he bought it before Valentine's day and hid the shit in his drawer. Hooray for his wonderful surprise.

CristinaLynn

Tell him you forgot it was Valentines Day lol...and take his shit back

sehra4177

Wow, I feel for you. I know they say gifts are gifts, but I'm sorry I know its the thought that counts...doesn't always fly. I would've rather gotten nothing...its hard to just be like oh at least he thought of me. That's something a little kid who doesn't know better gets for his grandma..if I were you I prob would've "accidentally" threw the mug as hard as I could against the wall...lol. I'm kidding but I def agree it sucks. When it comes to bf/gf you at least expect he will get you something half decent.

clope18

I say take his stuff back & give him a pair of socks lol

kayleigh27

Im with clope!

jules

I agree with them take it back and don't think once to feel bad about it.

captivated

I am so sorry! I did laugh a bit about the cup, not intending to offend, but that's some sh*t that would happen to me. I am all about gratefulness for ANY gift...but a cup? I would feel the same as you. You deserve so much more!

KayyCarter

I would rather have gotten nothing. If he wanted to spend money on me, we were at the mall, it was possible. He knows what I like. Make up, perfume, shit even a card. But a $4.99 cup with a bear. I feel like I'm worthless. Fuck it being a thought that counts. That's just a half ass thought. Just to say he "remembered."

LeviLuv8

me and hubby just did cards this year! Maybe we'll do dinner.

Janet_2011

well is better than nothing , even though it sucks that he just though about him self.. his greedy ass , i would throw the mug at his head.. maybe it will sink in that he made a mistake, sometimes men dont realize it when they are being dumb. i got nothing this year and so did he, we had to pay a bunch of bills and our taxes havent come yet .. and he is working today from 7am - 10 pm ..

natashalynn

I'd be pissed too. Go buy yourself something and don't feel guilty! If he gives you shit about it, say 'oh, this was the rest of your gift to me!'

RedShadoe0

Haha I like the way @natashalynn thinks!!! My hubby is like that but with vehicles... But baby I NEED this! It's for gas mileage I swear!!! Psh... Yeah right, tell me how new special headlights helps with that...

I'm sorry he was selfish I'd be livid with a cup too...

natashalynn

Haha my bf is the same way @redshadoe0 always something new for one of his cars!

newmomma13

At least you got a cup with a bear even though you deserve more cause my bf has a stank ass attitude...and yesterday was my bday and he didn't want to go eat with me or even hang out with me...now that's just sad and lmao @Janet_2011

KayyCarter

So we got into a fight about it and he had the nerve to tell me I didn't give him a chance to get me something. Come the fuck on. Excuse my language. I'm just so over his bullshit. He is completely selfish and I will not entertain his shit.

newmomma13

There you go girl!!! Lol ur the one whose mom us in kuwait right

KayyCarter

@newmomma13
Oh no, not my mom. She's right here actually lol.
He actually caught himself going to the mall right now. Idk why he thinks I want his after thought gift.

newmomma13

Oh ok lol I bet y'all laughing and like wtf lol...but he knows he f'd up lol ol i wanna buy a teddy bear in a cup lookin self lol

KayyCarter

@newmomma13
LMAO!! u sound like me that was funny lolol

newmomma13

Lol so what did he bring back from the mall

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Omf'ng I woulda been pissed off too. A bear in a cup.....yeah, ok! I'm sure u probably wanna smash the hell outta the shit that he bought for himself. I know I would.

KayyCarter

@newmomma13 @bexiewexie
Not shit. End of story.

KayyCarter

I have no knowledge of the whereabouts of that cup and bear since this morning.

KayyCarter

@sophias11
Apparently something ate it. I should've smashed it.

Mimii36

Yea my bf spent $10 on a bear & I spent $80 on him! I know how u feel!

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JessAnnEngland

My bd just got a $5000 tax check & bought me a $10 heart box of nasty cream filled chocolates... Said he wanted to get me something else to go with it but he thought a stuffed animal or a card was corny, knowing ive been wanting a new engagement ring for awhile now.. $198 ring.. i even sent him a link lastnight to his phone of a pic of the ring on the site. Then i sent him another link of a cheaper $125 ring hinting that i liked that one too and would settle for it since its v-day... Weve been together 3 years, have a 2 month old baby boy and he wanted to marry me after 2 years... Idk i feel worthless.. didnt say anything to him. Dont want to seem ungreatful or whiney but my feelings are very hurt.