I am so sorry for you loss. I can't even begin to imagine. It sounds like you have a very supportive family which is great. I've been thinking of you and that little baby all day! Rest in peace little baby.
@mama_kat ME TOO! I got up to use the bathroom & felt a huge clot. So I took my cell phone with me, thank God. I almost fell off the toilet from dizziness so I called my husband who was asleep so I didn't have to yell & wake the kids..lol. Actually, I don't think I had enough breath to yell, I could hardly talk. It was scary...
@homebirthadvocate - thanks for helping me through it, you'd think after so many kids I'd be a pro, but never had a mc so late. I've always wanted to do a home birth though, so I got my wish lololol Not quite what I had in mind though.
@homebirthadvocate - one more question, sorry.... my lips & insides of my eyes are real white, do you think I should take some iron supplements? I wasn't anemic before the mc. Thanks!
@wilsomom i am so sorry for your loss i lost my son at 16wks and he had only been dead for few days. Cause his measurements were on track. But qhen i delivered him at the hoapital lwt me hold him as much as possible and i held him 3times and each time was for like 30-45 mins. If you need me im here message me or get my number and text. It was amazing how perfectly formed they are and how like they are just really tiny but everything is there.
@tbaby2011 - I'm so sorry you lost your baby too.... it's wonderful they let you hold him, I've heard some hospitals wont. This was a very emotional and touching experience, I never imagined I would actually get to see his fully formed body, it was amazing. They said he died around 11 weeks, but the ultrasound tech got a measurement of 4.2 cm, I got 5.3, so I think he was a little older.
@wilsomom my son measured close to the right size but confirmed tqice his heart was not beating. He wieghed in at 2.1 oz and 7inyou long he was perfect. Im very sorry you went through wverything you did. My body was not starting anything so instead of dnc my doctor did induction . I went through 7hrs7the of labor and then had to push once to have my son so they let me hold him as much as i wanted i also have pics of him and all his stuff . If you need me im here.
Yes i have a daughter who will be 4 in december and a daughter who was concieved 5wks after my loss of my son and will be a year old august 16. And i just found out we are expecting again but im only 5wks so its still in that very early stage and i constantly wonder if everything is ok. Like i said im here if you need anything its not easy i know. And dont worry that your hubby wasnt to inclined to holding the baby mine couldnt handle it he left during labor and returned before i was released next day. He understood i wanted my time with my son and he couldnt look at something he wanted so badly that had been taken from him. I understand you wanting to see him though i sat crying and staring at my son for the longest time.
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