im scared! being a mom again
I'm now feelin like a new mom!! I'm not ready! These thoughts never entered my mind before with my first. I never felt like a first time mom n I swear I put it off till now. I really can't do this again im worried. I don't feel ready period. Ahhh what if I can't treat them equally, what if Marissa don't get enough attention, what if they fight over my attention!
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I think your family just learns to adapt and grows together. I was born 10 years after my closest sibling and I know she was jealous and pissed off about not being the baby anymore, but she and I are very close now and have a great relationship. She was even good to me as a baby once she got used to the idea of me being around (which, honestly, didn't take that long).
My daughter is 1. We have same issues. Kayla has rude at timed with calling her hslf brother, the thing, or it. I wish brandon lived instead of him(her brother that passed) ect.. I mainly know it has to.do with her not sharing the same father and worrying I will luv and give more to baby. Lately she's coming around even picking things out. Just give her time.
@Jaime77 oh you've got an 11yr old too? I'm giving her time. I'm 22w3d though so times running out. I do include her in everything. But I've been with her dad since 98 & we are married now (in '03). So she & this baby have the same dad. I'm hoping she'll be accepting like your is.