In my opinion i would have to say things like this make me take deep consideration into looking into a career in law. It should be ILLEGAL by all means to terminate a pregnancy at 6weeks the most! They say women should have a right to their bodies but it is also against the law to commit murder. a developing embryo/fetus is living and does feel! Women/teenagers have many options as before being pregnant there are many types of birth control methods and if already pregnant their are many couples and people out there who would love to adopt. Im sure 100% of women know the consiquences of sex. Why is it when a pregnant women is murdered the murder is charged for the womens death and the babies death! Think people abortion is totally wrong and selfish
I agree. I think if you get to the point were the fetus has already started to develope an you have an abortion done it very well should be considered to be murder.
So my question to pro choicers is at what point does it go from its my body my choice, to this is another living being you are responsible for and choosing to kill. When and where do we draw the line from personal decition to murder...? Its a harsh statement, but its a harsh reality. The more people sugar coat it the more girls think its an easy way out, then deal with the conciquences the rest of their lives. I have two friends, and a teacher I greatly respected who've had abortions. I love and adore my friends, even not agreeing with what they were doing. Im not judging the person. Its the act and and the fact that children are dying befor they are givin a chance to live. My teacher can no longer have kids because of the abortion. She finaly stopped trying after years and years of miss cariages. My other friend has gone through depression issues because of it, and regrets it every day. The other has heart problems because her's was a very early abortion, but they don't inform you of how dangerouse the poison is they give you to kill the baby. She found out after how it can screw up your heart and system. There are Dr's fighting to get it off the market still. I believe it was the abortion pill. Not sure the name anymore. I also know a women who was the product of a rape. Her mom, even through the trama couldn't kill her baby. Now she is an amazing woman, mother of 4, and an amazing singer. Its a hard reality. But where do we draw the line??
I've been raped & beaten damn near to death. I got pregnant from the rapist & yes I aborted the child at 10 weeks, because of how the pregnancy occurred. So does that make me a murderer? I understand you all are expressing opinions but like isitfallyet stated above you never know a woman's story or situation. I'm sometimes sad I did it but I could never consider carrying that rapist child for nine months. It's a sad situation for woman & baby.
Wow as i make my way up this discussion im begining to see those who agree in abortion are using the words "the child" really sad and all the reasons why its okay. Its like saying its okay for someone to commit murder as long as they have a reason and difficult situation. NOT BUYING IT. Life is a gift from god and those who have abortions are destroying a potential life. Whose to say that baby had the knowledge to one day come up with the cure for HIV/AIDS?
It can't be made completely illegal for reasons of medical necessity and rape.... I don't think they do late-term abortions anywhere anymore. Idk I'm not for either side, I personally wouldn't get one but I've known people to get one and I understand their situations.
@ACL23 its not for you to buy or understand. You wouldn't understand until you were put in a situation like that. & yes I said "child" because i didn't ask for the baby & neither did I consent to it & especially @ 16.
I know a very close person to me who was young and raped and you know what they told me and personally this girl is a inspiration for her heart. Just because of what someone did to me does not give me the right to take a life she was hurt by the situation but the abortion would hurt the innocent baby too. It wasn't the babys fault a sick person did that to her. The baby just didn't belong to the rapist it was her blood too. She gave the baby up for adoption. i am a young mother with two kids that i had before graduating high schoolgraduated highschool at 17 and two months i will be out of med school starting internship anyone can do it just gotta have heart. Im not gonna sit here and try to convince abortion is wrong some people will NEVER get it but god and jesus christ have something for y'all.
I'm not for or against it. I come from a very good background & religious family. Yes I still suffer from my experience & have not gotten over it at all. But you sit here &.say god & Jesus Christ will have something for us, he also have something for those that judge. That's an great thing your friend or whoever did, but not all situations turn out the same. Especially when the perp that did it is family. So your comments are truly irrelevant to this forum, and against rules & guidelines of the app.
@lovingmybabyboy I am so sorry you ever had to go through something like that. Its horrible. No woman, especialy no child should ever have to go through something like that. I personly would love to see the man put to death myself. No one who can do that to another person should be alloud to walk this earth.. I truly don't know what I would have done in your situation. Your right I've never been there. And I pray I never will. I simply have a hard time with people making decitions who are not informed what they are really doing. I do feel very strongly about it yes. I have held hands and been right there with girls bawling their eyes out after.. Who went through it because they were scared and didnt see another way at the time. I would never judge you for your past. My heart aches at this sort of thing. We were never created to go through this. I just have a really hard time with people doing it out of convenience, or because they don't want to deal with it. Then making stupid excuses or justifications after. I have very strong views as im sure you and many others do. I don't want to cause hurt or disrespect. I can't imajon the scars you cary. I am not an angry judging person really. Just passionate, and knowing my friend Faren, and what her mom had to have gone through touched my life. She actually just published a book telling her and her moms story. Im sure its not something most women could even do. So please don't take it as anger or judging.
@Kmose77 thank you, you actually brought me to tears. It's not you that I was referring to & I can completely understand where you're coming from. I have a cousin who refuses to go on birth control & wear protection during intercourse & gets pregnant, than abort the baby each time. She makes me mad, because she could've prevented an unwanted pregnancy. But some ppl are heartless for judging without understanding
DO NOT take my comments into your personal lives because by all means its not directing towards anyone in this discussion would like to just get the different options and reasons why abortion is wrong and what i ment by god and jesus christ has something for y'all ment a healing of some kind. Not hatered or punishing. Apologies to those who took it offensive.
I too have to say though I have a lil issue with that statement. God and Jesus do have something for everyone. Its called love and forgiveness. Its called grace and peace.
You may not be directing your comments directly but anyone who can read see & know what you're doing & who you are referring too. You knew your comments were offensive. So you need to go read the guidelines & watch how you word your comments. good night
@Kmose77 that's so true. I actually thank GOD daily for blessing me with my unborn son & I pray he's completely healthy. I still suffer from this & ask for forgiveness & peace all the time
Well i completely agree with ACL23 i don't see her comments offensive it is a opinion and does give very good advice and better options. ABORTION IS WRONG. We are have our beliefs and this discussion bored shouldn't be used for those to taughnt her valuable opinions. There simply ones beliefs and im sure there's many people who strongly agree such as myself.
Im sure he will be. And again, its hard to let go of the past but its something that was done to you. You were a child in many ways yourself. I truly don't know the answer to that one. You were in a very bad position no one should be put in. But God knows. And im sure that lil baby is in heaven now happy as can be. Some times the hardest thing to do is forgive ourselves. Even if we wernt even the ones who did wrong. But you have to be able to. If God can forgive us who are we to not forgive ourselves?? lol And im sure you will love that lil man sooo much. Just going through what you did. He will be an amazingly loved child. And very blessed to have you as a mom im sure.
Have a good night. Get some rest, i think its time to walk away from this bord as well. And I have to work in the morning lol Sleep is hard enough without getting worked up! lol Good night all!
ACL23 do not feel guilty on your comments you seem very intelligent and bright seems your just out to put a word out for those to consider. Some have a defense mechanism behind guilt. Im sure your opinion ment something to someone don't feel discouraged to stop posting comments there very good and meaningful . maybe you should consider law school your points are very well out there made me think A LOT
@Kmose77 & @ACL23 I just want to say I agree 100% with you both. I get very defensive over the unborn aborted babies so I try to stear clear of the topic because it upsets me so much. But im glad there's people like you out there that stand up for what you believe in. I would never judge anyone either, I just wish everyone realized its a BABY, a soul. No matter what age, no matter how it came about. No one would put to death a baby after its born no matter what, so why before? So sad:( I know life is not easy... it just flat out sucks sometimes.
For god sake this is unreal my personal viewis not for abortion how ever I wld not judge sum one else for doing it.all u people slaggin the others off need to think more carefully befor openly judging .and maby keep ur views to urselves rather thn upsetting the people who hav gone throu with it.im sure it was a very hard choice to make
I agree that abortion is wrong and is murder. Monitoring the development of the child growing inside of me now only confirms that more. I have no doubt that my nearly 8 week baby can feel and depends on me making the decisions for her well being. I was raped as a young child and suffered night terrors through my childhood. I became pregnant and I had my daughter two weeks before I turned 15 and was tried to be forced into an abortion at which point I told the clinic to shove it.
There's a very cut and dry reason why they don't show appropriate info about the development.... money. If they tell a pregnant woman what she's about to do she is much less likely to do it. Instead of teaching abstinence to our kids and responsibility, things like abortion are made the easy answer. I was on drugs at 14 and 15.. I was severely depressed and suicidal. When I became pregnant my body and life no longer belonged to me and I chose to stop all my risky behavior. My daughter will be 15 this year and if I'd have listened to that clinic I wouldn't have her every day. Moreover, I likely would have killed myself when I realized what I had done due to the depression. I never regret changing my life for her as she is and always will be the best thing to have come from my life.
I would like to say that the first thing our president did in office was to increase the funding that we send for abortions in other countries. Because its more cost affective than sending educators. Face it people... we as a society have sold our souls to money and our children and economy are now paying the price. Not to get all political... but if you don't believe me look it up. Our child support systems get rich off of the payer behind the scenes and leave children fatherless, divource is a big money maker and our welfare system is completely messed up. Our kids are more worried about the cost of what goes on their head than the quality of what goes in it. Its all about the dollar.
Also, I want It to be known that my comments here I hope are not seen as judgemental, but rather another view to be considered. I do a great deal of human rights research and am a supporter of the Constitution.
This all makes me so very sad I have wanted a baby for soooo long, since I wad 7 I have wanted to be a mommy!!! Everyone has a story but everyone can change a situation too. There are so many wonderful ppl in the world to help out those in a bad situation and to help protect them from bad ppl. My cousin (male) is the most ridicuous fertile person he has 5 chidren dif moms and s possible 6 & hes sitting in prison for murder of one of his childrens mom and his past gf had an abortion & it was her 2nd abortion broke my heart!!!!!! And now she is in a new relationship and has a baby. I scream & get really upset on the inside bc its been 16 months of ttc & 100 bfn & I know life isn't fair but neither is this!!!!!!!!!
Now adays they stick different utensils inside you, after opening your cervix an breaking your water, they proceed to take a item insert it inside you an they first start by pulling off one of the babies legs! Then they remove the next leg an both arms. They then remove the body. As for the head, they crush the babies head in order to get the head out of you. Thats whats going on. The doctors are killing an removing a living thing that has a heartbeat an is being created inside your body. Every women knows what will happen if your not protecting yourself. Im not passing judgement because I know all to well how it feels to be violated.
I say until you walk a day in someones shoes there is no room to judge. Not one person on this app is in a position to play god. This subject just needs to go away because no one is ever going to agree on it.
Do not ever say I need to be charged with murder for a decision that I made when I was younger. You do not know me or my situation. I have paid my penance and made my peace.
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There's a very cut and dry reason why they don't show appropriate info about the development.... money. If they tell a pregnant woman what she's about to do she is much less likely to do it. Instead of teaching abstinence to our kids and responsibility, things like abortion are made the easy answer. I was on drugs at 14 and 15.. I was severely depressed and suicidal. When I became pregnant my body and life no longer belonged to me and I chose to stop all my risky behavior. My daughter will be 15 this year and if I'd have listened to that clinic I wouldn't have her every day. Moreover, I likely would have killed myself when I realized what I had done due to the depression. I never regret changing my life for her as she is and always will be the best thing to have come from my life.
Also, I want It to be known that my comments here I hope are not seen as judgemental, but rather another view to be considered. I do a great deal of human rights research and am a supporter of the Constitution.
Do not ever say I need to be charged with murder for a decision that I made when I was younger. You do not know me or my situation. I have paid my penance and made my peace.