M and my s/o has been together for 2 years. We try to have sex every day... it is rare that we go more than 2 days with out it. After having my little girl mine and his sex drive increaced big time!
When we first started dating, it was every night. Now that we have the baby (almost 3 months), it's probably about 2 - 4 times a week. He is fine going long spurts, until he can't have it (postpartum). lol
@mommyof3girls same here... at the end of the day (and we don't even HAVE kids yet) I'm looking at my pillow... lookin at him... look back at my pillow... and the pillow wins. This last year I've been so drained for whatever reason. I always feel to tired or lazy to be that active haha.
Been with my husband for 12 years (since I was 15!) We didn't do it for 2 years bc I wasn't ready...but once we did we couldn't get enough...through our college years we did it at least 2 times a day if not more and after that it was at least once a day until I got pregnant and baby started moving freaked him out so we didn't do it for almost 8 months and now its maybe once a week I much rather sleep! We have been married for 3 years and have a 5 month old.
At first when we were boyfriend and girlfriend we waitrd at least 1 yr in half becausr I wasnt rrady. Then when we started having sex it was every day and sometimes 2x a day. And now we been living together for 4 yrs. At first when we moved together it was the same but after 3 or 4 months it was twice a week. And now its twice every two weeks. And when hes not tired we do it twice sometimes three times a week.
Ive been with my husband for almost 9 years. We used to have sex daily but after david 4 years ago, my sex drive disappeared. I dont get "excited", I have to use lube because Im not able to self lubricate at all anymore, and its almost impossible to climax. Something is seriously wrong with me I really WANT to want sex, but I just dont. The only reason I do at all if for my hubby. After Aadyn, my sex drive came back for about one month. We had sex multiple times a day but its gone again and has been 6 weeks since we have had sex.,Im so upset bc I love my husband so much and im very attracted to him but the thought of sex doesnt interest me. Any thoughts on why this happened and what I can try???
@dadof2n1togo dont feel bad for your feelings. I know it must be very frustrating for you. I know my hubby feels hurt by it as well & thinks its somehow his fault, but it definitely isnt. Your wife may be like me, with a sex drive that doesnt exist. Has she talked to you about it? I really wish I had a sex drive bc I love my husband so much & he really deserves it. Again though, dont feel guilty for your feelings. I completely understand why you would feel that way
Haha, yea I know. I wish I knew if it was chemical or what, because we are happily married and very much in love. My sex drive has improved some since having aadyn, because after david, we had sex like once every few months and I didnt even want it then. Now, this 6 weeks has been the longest dry spell but its still pretty damn long lol @redshadoe0
@Davidnaadynsmama I/We are EXACTLY the same way. Docs cant figure out whats wrong. They took me off of Depo cause they thought it was that, hormonal interuption and then 1 year later, and sex 1 time that month baby #2 was concieved. Thought it would change after this one but nope...Bugs the hell outta me!!
Wish me and hubby were that active lol we use to go at eachother like the way you ladies are saying but now its about 1nce a week sometime 2 to 3 times a week.
Really wish I had more of a sex drive! Grrr it's frustrating! Before I got preggo we were doing it all the time! Was on pelvic rest most of my pregnancy (plus just didn't want it anyway, but I felt less guilty when the Dr said no LOL) and struggling to get it back. It's been hard lately cuz hubby is having a hard and stressful time at work so when he comes home he can be short and snaps easily and doesn't want to help me out but just play video games. When he's like that I have zero desire to be close with him sexually. One day he told me he was sexually frustrated, so I told him maybe I would be willing to help him with that if he was ever loving or even remotely romantic with me.... He's been trying a little harder LOL had sex for the first time in two months the other night
We've been married 7yrs an its probably once a week! Its stupid!!! We used to do it more but since i had Bella in September and much IUD in Oct its once a week. The IUD has caused me to lose my sex drive which apparently is common :-(
Been with dh for 2 1/2 years and married for a year and our sexlife is what we make of it lol the first year it was every other day. After we got married it was about 4 times a week, now that i'm pregnant, maybe twice a month as long as baby is asleep lol
Man to be dating again lol... Dave & I have been together going on 7 years married for 3... We have 3 kids together and we just have sex when we can I am not sure on the amount cuz every week is different but I would guess around 10-15 times a month... But when we were dating it used to be 7 times in a day... 12 hrs straight of just sex... Omg I miss those days! But with 3 kids it's hard to even get an hr a day
If it was up to my so we would have sex everyday twice a day. He will NEVER turn down sex. Seriously, doesn't matter if he's tired, half sleep, sick, it doesn't matter! Lol. I use to have that sex drive but not now. I'm always so tired. I have to be up at 8am and he doesn't even get off work until 11pm. So if we have sex I won't get to bed until about 2am. Then have to be right back up in 6 hours. I hate it. I would love to have sex with him everyday. But our schedules make that too hard. So its about once a week.
Sex is like a foreign word in my house! Lol I haven't had sex in like 8 months! I have NO sex drive at all. And by the time we get our 5 yr old and 6 month old in bed, we just wanna go to sleep!
I agree with most of these ladies. We used to get busy 5 times a day! Even more when we were ttc but now im lucky if i even feel like it once a week....bums me out but im just so tired....
We have been together 3yrs and engaged for almost 2 and we do it almost everyday some days we do it 2-4 times a day...I was on the depo before I got pregnant and my sex drive sucked bad. But we still did it a lot. I had my son in September and got back on the depo and now my sex drive is insane I can't get enough lol! I'm so glad my fiancee is still a horndog or I'd be going through batteries like nobody's business LMAO!
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Wish me and hubby were that active lol we use to go at eachother like the way you ladies are saying but now its about 1nce a week sometime 2 to 3 times a week.
We have sex 2 days a week.. but will have have sex like 3 times during that day. LOL
We're drained with like but try and still manage to talk dirty to each other and get nasty..
Couple times a month..3 kids..